anniee19
Shiny_Rock
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- Mar 31, 2008
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In short, I have 5 bridesmaids standing up with me. I am not particularly closer to one than the other, so I never chose a maid of honor. I thought I could do that later on. Now we''re 3 months away from our wedding, and I''m having a hard time getting the girls organized together. My fiancee''s sister M is throwing a bridal shower, and has asked me about a bachelorette party. Nobody else has brought up anything about either of these things at all. One of my other bridesmaids, W, has helped out with things, always offers help, etc. but the other 3 girls have said nothing. I have known my friend W for about 2 years, and have been pretty close to FI''s sister for about 2 years, and I''m her son''s Godmother. My sister-in-law is a bridesmaid, and when my mom went there last week to visit, she said, "Now when is the wedding going to be again? Oh- it''s Memorial Weekend???" Her 3 daughters are also in the wedding party! My first thought was to have her stand next to me, but now I''m not so sure!
Would it be silly to just now ask somebody to be my MOH, with only 3 months to go? Or would it be beneficial to have somebody to get the girls rounded up, but who? I cannot decide for the life of me! If I just let it be, and choose not to have one, do you think I''ll run into problems down the road?
Would it be silly to just now ask somebody to be my MOH, with only 3 months to go? Or would it be beneficial to have somebody to get the girls rounded up, but who? I cannot decide for the life of me! If I just let it be, and choose not to have one, do you think I''ll run into problems down the road?