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Ideal_Rock
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Generally, I''m pretty secure in my relationship (BF says that''s part of why he likes me). But when one of his exes called yesterday morning out of the blue, it kind of bothered me. And the fact that I was bothered also bothered me!
I didn''t react (outwardly) or say anything to him, but I was secretly glad when he didn''t call her back (he will eventually, of course, because he''s that polite). Of course, he''s amazing and made it a point to tell me that he hadn''t spoken to her in years and had no interest in speaking to her.
I''m totally over feeling weird by now; I''m more intrigued than anything else, because BF is pretty private about his love life and I''ve never heard anything about this woman. Of course, I''ll respect his privacy and let him tell me when/what he deems appropriate.
I just wish that my reaction could have been, "Hey, cool, his ex called," instead of "Hmm, why is she calling? What does she want?!" Or would the latter have been a strange reaction?
I didn''t react (outwardly) or say anything to him, but I was secretly glad when he didn''t call her back (he will eventually, of course, because he''s that polite). Of course, he''s amazing and made it a point to tell me that he hadn''t spoken to her in years and had no interest in speaking to her.
I''m totally over feeling weird by now; I''m more intrigued than anything else, because BF is pretty private about his love life and I''ve never heard anything about this woman. Of course, I''ll respect his privacy and let him tell me when/what he deems appropriate.
I just wish that my reaction could have been, "Hey, cool, his ex called," instead of "Hmm, why is she calling? What does she want?!" Or would the latter have been a strange reaction?