Hey guys and gals,
Been browsing for a while here and finally decided to join the family here. Anyways, I figured this was the best place to post up my dilemma since it relates in some way to my proposal.
Background: K and I have been dating for over three and a half years now. Two of those years were comprised of us in a long distance relationship (doesn''t get much longer than coast to coast). Well last January, K moved down South to be with me and to finish up college.
As our relationship has grown, so has our love. I am finally ready to take the next step....I am hunting for the ring, thinking up the proposal, getting everything set for that special day when I propose.
But here''s my problem...her parents are on the other side of the U.S.!!!! I always felt that the traditional "take her father to dinner" idea was a part of this whole process....but now I have no idea how to pull that off without 1) K knowing where I am (and therefore knowing what I''m doing) 2) With my busy schedule, I don''t even have a free weekend between now and the day I am planning on proposing to K.
Getting a plane ticket wouldn''t really be an issue (thank you Frequent Flier miles)...but I can''t figure out how in the world to go about this.
Would a phone call be "inappropriate"??
Thanks for the help, guys and gals...
Been browsing for a while here and finally decided to join the family here. Anyways, I figured this was the best place to post up my dilemma since it relates in some way to my proposal.
Background: K and I have been dating for over three and a half years now. Two of those years were comprised of us in a long distance relationship (doesn''t get much longer than coast to coast). Well last January, K moved down South to be with me and to finish up college.
As our relationship has grown, so has our love. I am finally ready to take the next step....I am hunting for the ring, thinking up the proposal, getting everything set for that special day when I propose.
But here''s my problem...her parents are on the other side of the U.S.!!!! I always felt that the traditional "take her father to dinner" idea was a part of this whole process....but now I have no idea how to pull that off without 1) K knowing where I am (and therefore knowing what I''m doing) 2) With my busy schedule, I don''t even have a free weekend between now and the day I am planning on proposing to K.
Getting a plane ticket wouldn''t really be an issue (thank you Frequent Flier miles)...but I can''t figure out how in the world to go about this.
Would a phone call be "inappropriate"??
Thanks for the help, guys and gals...