Parachute07
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- May 4, 2013
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- 9
Hello all,
First of all, thank you all for the wealth of information here. This is an invaluable resource and a great community. I've been reading for a while, but this is my first post.
I've been trying my darnedest to read as much information as possible and wrap my mind around all of these numbers I'm looking at online. I've been to a couple of jewelers, although I live in a very rural area and I have very few opportunities to get to one when my better half isn't around. In addition to that, I'm a hardcore Internet shopper who hates to pay more than I should - especially if I end up paying more for something when I could have paid less and gotten something better. With that in mind, I've been trying to figure out how to get the best bang for my buck on a rock.
On that note, I am fairly certain that my girlfriend wants a Princess Cut. I say fairly certain because we've only looked together once and that happened to be what seemed to catch her eye the most - I honestly think she's the type who will be happy with anything (we've been together for 7 years and we live together and work from home together......so I feel like I have a pretty good handle on that). But what I know would matter more than anything to her is sparkle. She likes to see a diamond sparkle -- so I want to get her the darn sparkliest diamond I can afford. That said, I feel like I'm somewhat in luck as Princess cut brings the price down a bit -- meaning that I can hopefully afford to get something a little bit larger or with a little more sparkle than if she had her heart set on a round cut stone.
But that's where I'm running into some difficulty -- trying to determine which stones will offer the most sparkle and brilliance in my price range and size desire. I'd *like* to find a stone somewhere between 1.15-1.25 carats (not that I'd be opposed to a little bigger...and I'll drop if it means a super-wow in the fire/sparkle department) that will have the kind of fire and sparkle that will knock her socks off....while not completely draining my bank account. I know that table and depth have something to do with how and how much light is reflected -- and I've looked at the pictures and charts, but I'm struggling a bit to determine which would be best. I'm not particularly good at visualizing things I'm reading about in general. I've seen some charts that suggest that a table somewhere between 62-70% and a depth somewhere between 64-75% would yield the best-looking diamond (and I saw that the table of the diamond should not be a higher percentage than depth). Am I understanding that right? Can anyone give me an idea as to what kind of proportions they should be in order to create the most sparkle and fire? For example, I think I saw one with 66% table and a 76% depth.....if I'm pushing one edge or the other, which edge do I want to be pushing on the ranges and in what kind of proportions? I want something with maximum brilliance -- but I also don't want to pay for 1.20 carats and get something that ends up looking the same size as a 1 carat diamond due to its cut. If I pay for the 1.20 carats, I'd like it to appear bigger than a 1 carat diamond or else I'll drop back down to a carat. Am I making any sense? I appreciate any guidance that anyone can provide in this department.
My budget is hopefully something under $4700 for the stone. Remember that I hate to pay more when I could pay less -- so I wouldn't complain about spending a thousand bucks less.....but I'm also the kind of person who hates to spend $100 on something OK if I could have spent $125 on something fantastic.....so I could go as much as another thousand bucks or so beyond the budget if it's going to yield me a huge difference in appearance. It seems that my options in this range all seem to be graded by EGL -- which I've certainly read less than favorable things about. That said, I'm less concerned with the piece of paper than with the actual look of the stone (and I am positive that my GF will feel the same way). With that in mind, I do want something as close to colorless as possible (I was thinking down to G?) and that will not have any inclusions visible to the naked eye. We won't be walking around with a loope, so I'm much less concerned with what it looks like under magnification than I am with how it looks when it's on her hand. I understand that many SI1's are "eye clean", so I'm willing to go down to there if it's going to still look good.
Is my budget reasonable? Should I be changing any of my parameters? Should I be looking at a smaller stone with my price range in mind? Should I avoid any EGL graded diamond and just drop down to 1 carat and GIA or AGS in order to assure quality? I figure that with a 30-day return policy from most places, I'm not risking a lot with an EGL-graded diamond -- but am I wrong?
At the end of the day, getting married is more important than anything else. But I've been lucky enough to find the perfect person to spend my life with who has given me the life that I want. I want to give her a diamond that she can feel good about and be proud to show to her friends. Thanks in advance for your help!
First of all, thank you all for the wealth of information here. This is an invaluable resource and a great community. I've been reading for a while, but this is my first post.
I've been trying my darnedest to read as much information as possible and wrap my mind around all of these numbers I'm looking at online. I've been to a couple of jewelers, although I live in a very rural area and I have very few opportunities to get to one when my better half isn't around. In addition to that, I'm a hardcore Internet shopper who hates to pay more than I should - especially if I end up paying more for something when I could have paid less and gotten something better. With that in mind, I've been trying to figure out how to get the best bang for my buck on a rock.
On that note, I am fairly certain that my girlfriend wants a Princess Cut. I say fairly certain because we've only looked together once and that happened to be what seemed to catch her eye the most - I honestly think she's the type who will be happy with anything (we've been together for 7 years and we live together and work from home together......so I feel like I have a pretty good handle on that). But what I know would matter more than anything to her is sparkle. She likes to see a diamond sparkle -- so I want to get her the darn sparkliest diamond I can afford. That said, I feel like I'm somewhat in luck as Princess cut brings the price down a bit -- meaning that I can hopefully afford to get something a little bit larger or with a little more sparkle than if she had her heart set on a round cut stone.
But that's where I'm running into some difficulty -- trying to determine which stones will offer the most sparkle and brilliance in my price range and size desire. I'd *like* to find a stone somewhere between 1.15-1.25 carats (not that I'd be opposed to a little bigger...and I'll drop if it means a super-wow in the fire/sparkle department) that will have the kind of fire and sparkle that will knock her socks off....while not completely draining my bank account. I know that table and depth have something to do with how and how much light is reflected -- and I've looked at the pictures and charts, but I'm struggling a bit to determine which would be best. I'm not particularly good at visualizing things I'm reading about in general. I've seen some charts that suggest that a table somewhere between 62-70% and a depth somewhere between 64-75% would yield the best-looking diamond (and I saw that the table of the diamond should not be a higher percentage than depth). Am I understanding that right? Can anyone give me an idea as to what kind of proportions they should be in order to create the most sparkle and fire? For example, I think I saw one with 66% table and a 76% depth.....if I'm pushing one edge or the other, which edge do I want to be pushing on the ranges and in what kind of proportions? I want something with maximum brilliance -- but I also don't want to pay for 1.20 carats and get something that ends up looking the same size as a 1 carat diamond due to its cut. If I pay for the 1.20 carats, I'd like it to appear bigger than a 1 carat diamond or else I'll drop back down to a carat. Am I making any sense? I appreciate any guidance that anyone can provide in this department.
My budget is hopefully something under $4700 for the stone. Remember that I hate to pay more when I could pay less -- so I wouldn't complain about spending a thousand bucks less.....but I'm also the kind of person who hates to spend $100 on something OK if I could have spent $125 on something fantastic.....so I could go as much as another thousand bucks or so beyond the budget if it's going to yield me a huge difference in appearance. It seems that my options in this range all seem to be graded by EGL -- which I've certainly read less than favorable things about. That said, I'm less concerned with the piece of paper than with the actual look of the stone (and I am positive that my GF will feel the same way). With that in mind, I do want something as close to colorless as possible (I was thinking down to G?) and that will not have any inclusions visible to the naked eye. We won't be walking around with a loope, so I'm much less concerned with what it looks like under magnification than I am with how it looks when it's on her hand. I understand that many SI1's are "eye clean", so I'm willing to go down to there if it's going to still look good.
Is my budget reasonable? Should I be changing any of my parameters? Should I be looking at a smaller stone with my price range in mind? Should I avoid any EGL graded diamond and just drop down to 1 carat and GIA or AGS in order to assure quality? I figure that with a 30-day return policy from most places, I'm not risking a lot with an EGL-graded diamond -- but am I wrong?
At the end of the day, getting married is more important than anything else. But I've been lucky enough to find the perfect person to spend my life with who has given me the life that I want. I want to give her a diamond that she can feel good about and be proud to show to her friends. Thanks in advance for your help!