bennyboy96
Rough_Rock
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My fiancee and I are considering a destination wedding in Belize in April or May of next year. Her mother''s family is from there and her dad met her mom there while he spent 5 years there in the Peace Corps. Her parents also were married there. She has a few family members there. The location in Belize would be somewhere on Amgeris Caye in or around San Pedro. This wasn''t considered an option until she talked to her aunt who had a Catholic wedding on the beach in Belize. Apparently, in Belize, you can have a Catholic wedding outside on the beach if there is a canopy/gazebo type structure.
The alternative is a wedding in San Diego were both us and our parents live. The majority of her extended family lives in New Orleans with some on the East Coast. The majority of my extended family lives on the East Coast in Pennsylvania and DC. So both extended families would have to travel to either location, San Diego or Belize. The majority of our friends live in Southern California and would thus have to travel to Belize but not to San Diego. If in SD, it''d be in a Catholic church.
We would probably invite 200-250 people to the wedding regardless of location, and obviously expect many more to come to a SD wedding vs. Belize. I would guestimate that maybe 50-80 would go to Belize but that is just a wild guess. The main reason we''re considering Belize is it seems to be easier and much less stressful to do a destination wedding. Both our mothers are extremely high-strung and we want to keep the stress on them and us to a minimum.
My main question I guess is if anyone has had a destination wedding with more than 25 people and ended up regretting it and wishing they had a traditional wedding in their hometown or where they live. Also, has anyone had a traditional wedding at home and ended up wishing they had gone away for a destination wedding? If you''ve had a destination wedding with a good amount of guests, what % of invitees attended the destination wedding? Any other suggestions or input for us to consider while making this decision would be helpful. Thanks !
The alternative is a wedding in San Diego were both us and our parents live. The majority of her extended family lives in New Orleans with some on the East Coast. The majority of my extended family lives on the East Coast in Pennsylvania and DC. So both extended families would have to travel to either location, San Diego or Belize. The majority of our friends live in Southern California and would thus have to travel to Belize but not to San Diego. If in SD, it''d be in a Catholic church.
We would probably invite 200-250 people to the wedding regardless of location, and obviously expect many more to come to a SD wedding vs. Belize. I would guestimate that maybe 50-80 would go to Belize but that is just a wild guess. The main reason we''re considering Belize is it seems to be easier and much less stressful to do a destination wedding. Both our mothers are extremely high-strung and we want to keep the stress on them and us to a minimum.
My main question I guess is if anyone has had a destination wedding with more than 25 people and ended up regretting it and wishing they had a traditional wedding in their hometown or where they live. Also, has anyone had a traditional wedding at home and ended up wishing they had gone away for a destination wedding? If you''ve had a destination wedding with a good amount of guests, what % of invitees attended the destination wedding? Any other suggestions or input for us to consider while making this decision would be helpful. Thanks !