D.I.V.O.R.C.E.

[Mannequin]

InLuv, I don''t have much to say that hasn''t already been said, but I just wanted to send you some major (((HUGS))). Take time to grieve all the "what might have beens" and be good to yourself. It gets better. Been in your situation before, and while things seem bad now, you are going to emerge from this time in your life as a strong, confident, kick-a** woman.

 

[Burk]

I''m late to the thread but wanted to pop in and say I''m so sorry!!!

 

[puffy]

i''m late as well, but hope you are taking care of yourself. i''m sorry you have to go through this!

 

[violet02]

I''m also late to this post but I just wanted to add that I''m so sorry to read about this and I''m glad that you''ve gotten your own awesome place. I hope you''re doing well and good riddance to that guy for sure.

 

[gwendolyn]

Oh my gosh, honey, that is unbelievable! It is awful that thing have turned out like this but it does seem like it will be for the best. Congrats on your new (and gorgeous!) apartment and be good to yourself, sweetie pie. You deserve it!!

 

[fisherofmengirly]

Hey Inluv,

Sorry about all this news. Aye. It''s never fun to go through this level of heartache, but as others have said, it''s for the better, really. I think you know that, and still, the hurt is there. I''ve been there (not married, but just *this* close), and I thought it would kill me. But you know what? Not only did it NOT kill me, it made me stronger, a little smarter, and a lot more thankful and grateful when I did find the *right* man. It''ll be the same for you, my friend.

I remember from the other thread we have both spent *so* much time at that you''re a woman of faith. Girl, fall on that and lean on that and know that we''re never alone, even when we feel like we are. God doesn''t stray, even when everyone else in the world seems to. When people are tired of listening to our weepy ways, God still listens and comforts. For some this seems like a weakness, but I think you know just how much the power of prayer entails. I''m praying for you, and for wisdom to rise up in you from this situation.

Glad you have Miley; my FlipFlop got me through so many sad days and nights when I went through my dramatic end to a horrible relationship. It''s amazing how much you can bond with a pet when they''re there with you through crazy times.

Sorry to be posting so many days past the original news emerging; I''d read it on my phone but can''t post from my phone onto the net (only on facebook, how crazy odd is that???) and our internet was down over the weekend because of storms. Plus we had out of town guests and just now have things calmed down enough to see if the net''s back up, and happily, it is, so I can tell you just how much I''m thinking of you right now!!

Enjoy your new place. Living alone is very empowering. You learn what your interests are much more than you do when living with others... fill up your time doing things you love and God will lead you just where you need to be, sweetie!!

 

[joelly]

Hi In Luv,
I am so sorry to hear this. You''re still young. Better men will come your way. Just kick this one out to the curb, he is just a wannabe. He is only a boy who thinks he is man.
My heart goes out to you. Big hugs. If I were there, we will invite everyone over and just have a party together. That will be a shock and awe to him. You''re still young so time is on your side.
Hugssss again!!!

 

[mia1181]

Oh Inluv I am so sorry to read this. I''ve been routing for you in TTC!

As others have said just be glad it happened before a baby! You''ll be looking back someday so glad that this happened but take care of yourself in the meantime!

Hugs.

 

[InLuv101]

Thanks to Tuckins, Curlygirl, am04, Patchee, Diamondflame, Deco, alli_esq, dragonfly, Mrs, HappyAnniversary, Ltlfirecracker, DiamondDana, Equestrienne, Burk, Puffy, Violet, Gwendolyn, Fisher, Joelly, and Mia for all of your support, lovely words and thoughts.

I had a fantastic weekend with my family. We went shopping at the outlets (got a new Coach I've got to post about in the 'Show Me Your Coach' thread over in shopping) and just had a good time.

Big week...I'm off thie rest of the week and I get to move on Wednesday! Looking forward to celebrating my Independence Day as an independent woman and I couldn't be more excited!

Thanks again everyone for all of your support!! It means so much!

 

[audball]

Just wanted to give you some (((((((((HUGS)))))))))). I''m so glad to hear that you''re moving on so well. Good luck with your new place! It sounds awesome!