This may seem like an idiotic question, but here goes...
I''m popping the questing in September. Now, as you might imagine, the ring purchase has damaged my savings account considerably.
With that in mind, is there any guidance that can be given when it comes to this Christmas? Bluntly put, I won''t be able to afford anything fancy (not to mention the fact that I’m completely devoid of any ideas about what she might want), which may leave me with having to get something sentimental - which makes me feel a little embarrassed. And I know, the Christmas gift isn''t about the gift itself, it''s about the thought behind it, but let''s face it, no guy ever wants to feel like his fiancée nee girlfriend ever got him a better Christmas gift than he got for her. Or, do I take solace in the fact that the ring trumps any gift she could buy?(My God, seeing this in writing makes me sound incredibly materialistic).So, for any women out there (who can give me that unique insight), would you expect to have a lavish Christmas gift four months afterwards?
I''m popping the questing in September. Now, as you might imagine, the ring purchase has damaged my savings account considerably.
With that in mind, is there any guidance that can be given when it comes to this Christmas? Bluntly put, I won''t be able to afford anything fancy (not to mention the fact that I’m completely devoid of any ideas about what she might want), which may leave me with having to get something sentimental - which makes me feel a little embarrassed. And I know, the Christmas gift isn''t about the gift itself, it''s about the thought behind it, but let''s face it, no guy ever wants to feel like his fiancée nee girlfriend ever got him a better Christmas gift than he got for her. Or, do I take solace in the fact that the ring trumps any gift she could buy?(My God, seeing this in writing makes me sound incredibly materialistic).So, for any women out there (who can give me that unique insight), would you expect to have a lavish Christmas gift four months afterwards?