Alison P
Rough_Rock
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- May 23, 2007
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Has anyone already heard of having a ceremony and reception on different days? Dream come true or nightmare in the works??? I fell in love with Wayfarer''s Chapel (anyone who has been there will know where I''m coming from here, so I''ll say no more.) I''m not as in love with the food/bev minimums in the area (I thought La Venta was lovely though). We live in Palm Desert, and fiance works at a beautiful golf course (Golf Resort at Indian Wells) who wants to do the reception for us for a great deal. Our date is looking like January 3rd.
To answer your questions:
1. Yes, we''ve looked at a million places near Wayfarer''s.
2. Yes, we could just get married at the golf course to make it easier for the guests.
My question to you... how crazy is it to do a small, intimate ceremony on Friday the 2nd, followed by a big and roudy reception on the 3rd back in Indian Wells. Distance is 2.5-3 hours, most all guests are out-of-towners, we''d invite all to both (but through word of mouth tell everyone that it''s ok if they would prefer to do reception only due to the distance). We would rent a big "party bus" or large limo for those who wanted to go to the ceremony (one for the bride''s side, one for the grooms?). I''m still unsure about photography, etc., but we''d probably hire the amazing photographer who did our engagement photos for the ceremony and go with just a videographer for the reception.
:::Biting nails::: Ok, let me have it... what do you think? Has it been done? Can I have the quaint wedding by the ocean I''ve dreamed of and the big reception and party we''re so fortunate to have been offered???
To answer your questions:
1. Yes, we''ve looked at a million places near Wayfarer''s.
2. Yes, we could just get married at the golf course to make it easier for the guests.
My question to you... how crazy is it to do a small, intimate ceremony on Friday the 2nd, followed by a big and roudy reception on the 3rd back in Indian Wells. Distance is 2.5-3 hours, most all guests are out-of-towners, we''d invite all to both (but through word of mouth tell everyone that it''s ok if they would prefer to do reception only due to the distance). We would rent a big "party bus" or large limo for those who wanted to go to the ceremony (one for the bride''s side, one for the grooms?). I''m still unsure about photography, etc., but we''d probably hire the amazing photographer who did our engagement photos for the ceremony and go with just a videographer for the reception.
:::Biting nails::: Ok, let me have it... what do you think? Has it been done? Can I have the quaint wedding by the ocean I''ve dreamed of and the big reception and party we''re so fortunate to have been offered???