chemgirl
Ideal_Rock
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Mine is a bit crude and I think I’ve mentioned it before, but here it is again:
I had a friend since University. He was my lab partner, we used to double date back in the day. He helped me get a job at the company he works for after I graduated. We worked together for 7 years. We routinely ate lunch together. We carpooled sometimes. He and his wife were regulars at our house on the weekend.
He would push boundaries sometimes. It was always in a joking way and I would always shut it down. Then one day I come to work and there was something all over my chair. I sat in it. I work in a place where there are potentially harmful chemicals so this was a major safety concern. We reviewed all of the security footage trying to figure out what the heck it was.
It was truly horrifying. My friend was coming to work at least an hour before everyone else and watching pornography in my office. He was intentionally leaving a mess on my chair, in my coffee mug, on my keyboard. This happened several times per week and went back as far as there was saved video. He was fired immediately, I decided not to press charges because I didn’t want to make things harder on his wife.
I felt so betrayed and violated. He lied and told his wife that I “got him fired” because I was in love with him and couldn’t handle seeing him every day while he was in a relationship. She actually believed him and started spreading that rumour around our social circle. That was until an 18 year old pregnant girl knocked on her door one day. He was Christmas shopping and had sex with the high school kid who works at the bath and body store. Apparently he cast a wide net and there have been countless women over the course of their marriage.
Wife did apologize to me, but the damage was done with that group of friends. It’s hard to be around anyone after that kind of conflict.
I had a friend since University. He was my lab partner, we used to double date back in the day. He helped me get a job at the company he works for after I graduated. We worked together for 7 years. We routinely ate lunch together. We carpooled sometimes. He and his wife were regulars at our house on the weekend.
He would push boundaries sometimes. It was always in a joking way and I would always shut it down. Then one day I come to work and there was something all over my chair. I sat in it. I work in a place where there are potentially harmful chemicals so this was a major safety concern. We reviewed all of the security footage trying to figure out what the heck it was.
It was truly horrifying. My friend was coming to work at least an hour before everyone else and watching pornography in my office. He was intentionally leaving a mess on my chair, in my coffee mug, on my keyboard. This happened several times per week and went back as far as there was saved video. He was fired immediately, I decided not to press charges because I didn’t want to make things harder on his wife.
I felt so betrayed and violated. He lied and told his wife that I “got him fired” because I was in love with him and couldn’t handle seeing him every day while he was in a relationship. She actually believed him and started spreading that rumour around our social circle. That was until an 18 year old pregnant girl knocked on her door one day. He was Christmas shopping and had sex with the high school kid who works at the bath and body store. Apparently he cast a wide net and there have been countless women over the course of their marriage.
Wife did apologize to me, but the damage was done with that group of friends. It’s hard to be around anyone after that kind of conflict.
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