allycat0303
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I told my guy I would post this on PS and adhere to whatever advice you gals give me.
So one of my guy''s closest friends is named E. So E has a girlfriend of 5 years (I''ll call her M) and they live together and everything.
About 1 year ago M sent my guy text messages, bought him little presents. Invited my guy over to their house when E wasn''t home. AND they really don''t know each other well enough for this. So I got the sense she was trying to get my guy. It was a little bizzare, but then she just stopped/lost intrest.
For E''s birthday, M invited my guy (and the invitation was extended to me) to a party at her house. I came, she never spoke to me (not one word, and ignored me when I spoke to her) and basically invited all of the girlfriends to go downstairs and watch a movie, EXCEPT me. I basically spent the whole evening in a corner.
AND she''s a nurse at a hospital where I''ve had rotations. Been in the same room with me for 20 minutes, and NEVER even smiled/acknowledge that I breath. I get the feeling she''s trying to make me feel insignificant or something.
So brief, I don''t like her. But I don''t see her that much or anything, but when I do it''s an annoyance.
I would love if he came to the wedding, but I ABSOLUTELY do NOT want anyone there that doesn''t wish me well. So can I just invite him? I KNOW it''s not proper form. I KNOW it''s rude, but I bristle at paying for a meal for someone who I dislike. I''m toying with the idea of sending an invitation with his name and then only 1 menu selection for one person....Also, the guest list is VERY restricted. We''re planning on only having the people we must invite (parents have more guests then us, but it''s all family). I am inviting 5 friends and their dates. That''s 10 guests for me.
So can I not invite her? My guy says you can''t do that. I think he''s afraid of what he was to say when E is bound to call and say "oh is M invited?"
Thanks!
So one of my guy''s closest friends is named E. So E has a girlfriend of 5 years (I''ll call her M) and they live together and everything.
About 1 year ago M sent my guy text messages, bought him little presents. Invited my guy over to their house when E wasn''t home. AND they really don''t know each other well enough for this. So I got the sense she was trying to get my guy. It was a little bizzare, but then she just stopped/lost intrest.
For E''s birthday, M invited my guy (and the invitation was extended to me) to a party at her house. I came, she never spoke to me (not one word, and ignored me when I spoke to her) and basically invited all of the girlfriends to go downstairs and watch a movie, EXCEPT me. I basically spent the whole evening in a corner.
AND she''s a nurse at a hospital where I''ve had rotations. Been in the same room with me for 20 minutes, and NEVER even smiled/acknowledge that I breath. I get the feeling she''s trying to make me feel insignificant or something.
So brief, I don''t like her. But I don''t see her that much or anything, but when I do it''s an annoyance.
I would love if he came to the wedding, but I ABSOLUTELY do NOT want anyone there that doesn''t wish me well. So can I just invite him? I KNOW it''s not proper form. I KNOW it''s rude, but I bristle at paying for a meal for someone who I dislike. I''m toying with the idea of sending an invitation with his name and then only 1 menu selection for one person....Also, the guest list is VERY restricted. We''re planning on only having the people we must invite (parents have more guests then us, but it''s all family). I am inviting 5 friends and their dates. That''s 10 guests for me.
So can I not invite her? My guy says you can''t do that. I think he''s afraid of what he was to say when E is bound to call and say "oh is M invited?"
Thanks!