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Ellen- There''s no secret force which will make anyone read, or participate in a discussion here.
Maybe some would like it better if everyone just agreed- or shut up if they did not agree with the "we" you have included yourself in.
But as your tag line mentions, integrity is not a part time thing. Someone asked a question- and I am giving my opinion in a manner that does not compromise my integrity.
You''re totally free not to read it.
You have stated that most Tiffany Cartier and Winston shoppers "don''t know about cut"- isn''t that a bit presumptuous? If they are smart enough to figure out how to earn the funds to shop in such stores, let''s give them a little credit.
Part of this conversation that makes it go on and on is the unwillingness by many posters here to admit there''s other ways to look at this subject- that subject being "What constitutes a well cut diamond"- or "how can we demonstrate that it''s a well cut diamond?"
David Atlas was spot on referring to this point: "This is not really about the good or bad of ideal cut selling, but a discussion about who chooses what and why. There is no one simple answer."
In other words, there will never be a "resolution" to this discussion. But if I''m participating, and a question like the OP''s comes up, I feel that telling another side will always enrich the conversation.
Storm feels that people would choose a near tolk, I feel that many will choose a spreadier well cut stone based on it''s visual characteristics.
Aside form a lot of "explanations"- such as- it''s the store lighting- it''s going to look terrible when it''s dirty- people in big cities like trashy things...etc- no expert has come here and actually answered the question I posed. I believe that''s because they also know the answer. A fair percentage of people will pick the spreadier well cut stone over a near tolk.
I disagree with some of the things David has said- such as the statement that people in big cities go for "big and showy" while rural people go for "lasting quality".
People owning well cut spready diamonds have enjoyed them for many many years with no degradation of quality. There''s nothing about a well cut 60/60 that is not "long lasting" as compared to a near tolk.
I agree that the best sellers with integrity are able to show potential buyers what they love about whatever they are selling- and that there is benefit for consumers in this.
As far as "putty in their hands" maybe other sellers have different experiences but I find that intelligent people will make up their own minds.
part gypsy brought up a very good point about size. Part of what I like better about a well cut spreadier diamond is that they tend to look larger than a near tolk of the same weight. I would not be alone in that preference
Maybe some would like it better if everyone just agreed- or shut up if they did not agree with the "we" you have included yourself in.
But as your tag line mentions, integrity is not a part time thing. Someone asked a question- and I am giving my opinion in a manner that does not compromise my integrity.
You''re totally free not to read it.
You have stated that most Tiffany Cartier and Winston shoppers "don''t know about cut"- isn''t that a bit presumptuous? If they are smart enough to figure out how to earn the funds to shop in such stores, let''s give them a little credit.
Part of this conversation that makes it go on and on is the unwillingness by many posters here to admit there''s other ways to look at this subject- that subject being "What constitutes a well cut diamond"- or "how can we demonstrate that it''s a well cut diamond?"
David Atlas was spot on referring to this point: "This is not really about the good or bad of ideal cut selling, but a discussion about who chooses what and why. There is no one simple answer."
In other words, there will never be a "resolution" to this discussion. But if I''m participating, and a question like the OP''s comes up, I feel that telling another side will always enrich the conversation.
Storm feels that people would choose a near tolk, I feel that many will choose a spreadier well cut stone based on it''s visual characteristics.
Aside form a lot of "explanations"- such as- it''s the store lighting- it''s going to look terrible when it''s dirty- people in big cities like trashy things...etc- no expert has come here and actually answered the question I posed. I believe that''s because they also know the answer. A fair percentage of people will pick the spreadier well cut stone over a near tolk.
I disagree with some of the things David has said- such as the statement that people in big cities go for "big and showy" while rural people go for "lasting quality".
People owning well cut spready diamonds have enjoyed them for many many years with no degradation of quality. There''s nothing about a well cut 60/60 that is not "long lasting" as compared to a near tolk.
I agree that the best sellers with integrity are able to show potential buyers what they love about whatever they are selling- and that there is benefit for consumers in this.
As far as "putty in their hands" maybe other sellers have different experiences but I find that intelligent people will make up their own minds.
part gypsy brought up a very good point about size. Part of what I like better about a well cut spreadier diamond is that they tend to look larger than a near tolk of the same weight. I would not be alone in that preference