??? I thought I was just being an *******, honestly. Sometimes I don't need a "back story" to be one! If we're talking about the same thread that has been deleted--the one about inlaws but not really but actually yes--I was just responding to the crux of the biscuit. Have I compounded that with a back story? I'd hate to think so. I pride myself on being a plain old butthole.
Please don't ever feel like you should apologize to me! I'm a big girl and i can take it when I dish it. I don't even know what you're apologizing for but I probably deserved it. It's very nice of you to start this thread, though. That is not lost on me and I appreciate it, for whatever that's worth.