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Shiny_Rock
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- Nov 4, 2005
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Ladies, I need some HELP!
I''ve recently (in the last week) got engaged. Why my FI purposed he purposed without a ring. In the last week his mother has offered to give him the diamond from her wedding ring to his father (they''ve been divorced for about 10 years now). The diamond originally was my FI''s father''s Aunts (so we''re talking 100 or so years old!)
At first, she was kind of reluctant to give it to us- as I''m sure it means alot of her- but did because she recognizes that it''s a family heirloom and also will save us some major bucks!
My FI''s parents were married in 1976 so we''re talking major 70''s jewelery! The ring is a 6mm 14kt Gold band (think cigar wrapper type) with the diamond mounted to the top....Obviously not anything I''m interested in keeping or wearing.
Here''s my thought- PLEASE tell me if you think I''m nuts.....
We''re going to the Jeweler today to have the stone removed. I thinking of asking him to put a gem stone back in her setting. Or maybe even adding two smaller ones to the side.... and giving it back to her, kind of a symbol of my appreciation to her.
Her B-day is this month, so Amethyst would look really nice with the gold.
My fear is that she might not like it or be offended that I would alter her ring.
ANY thoughts?
I''ve recently (in the last week) got engaged. Why my FI purposed he purposed without a ring. In the last week his mother has offered to give him the diamond from her wedding ring to his father (they''ve been divorced for about 10 years now). The diamond originally was my FI''s father''s Aunts (so we''re talking 100 or so years old!)
At first, she was kind of reluctant to give it to us- as I''m sure it means alot of her- but did because she recognizes that it''s a family heirloom and also will save us some major bucks!
My FI''s parents were married in 1976 so we''re talking major 70''s jewelery! The ring is a 6mm 14kt Gold band (think cigar wrapper type) with the diamond mounted to the top....Obviously not anything I''m interested in keeping or wearing.
Here''s my thought- PLEASE tell me if you think I''m nuts.....
We''re going to the Jeweler today to have the stone removed. I thinking of asking him to put a gem stone back in her setting. Or maybe even adding two smaller ones to the side.... and giving it back to her, kind of a symbol of my appreciation to her.
Her B-day is this month, so Amethyst would look really nice with the gold.
My fear is that she might not like it or be offended that I would alter her ring.
ANY thoughts?