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Agreed 100%. A friend of mine lost her job on Friday, and she''s taking a few mental days off (she was fired because she filed a harassment report - crazy freak was calling her and leaving her messages of him mbating to her voice - the company didn''t take it seriously and let her go for being late on December 6th. Yes, being late 3 months ago. This is AFTER they gave her a stellar performance review). But she has already started figuring out the next steps and coming out with great ideas that would look fantastic on her resume.Date: 3/2/2010 5:01:48 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
But see that''s where I have the biggest problem with the OP. And for the record I''d react this way to anyone who posted this, not just Smurfy. This is the FIRST day not at the office. I don''t understand how someone can be bored out of their mind and looking for an outlet for entertainment when they''ve been out of the job for 12-18 hours. I can see maybe getting discouraged after a month or two with no hits, but the job search hasn''t even really started yet! If this is the way it''s going to start then I honestly can''t see it ending well.
It''s totally OK to be burned out and feel like crud about getting let go from your last job, but if this is the case then admit it to yourself. Then take a day or two (or a week!) off and decompress so you can approach the job search with a fresh mind and perspective. If immediate money is an issue, try and find a job that you will make a little cash but won''t make so much to be denied UE benefits (like waitressing) so you''ve got something to get you out of the house at night, you make some $ and you can tackle job hunting.
Anyways, I don''t think I have anything useful to add to this thread anymore
