rainbowtrout
Ideal_Rock
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So it looks like my maid of honor either a) won''t come or b) will come, and we''ll be in the middle of a serious fight while she''s staying in our house.
I seriously am not sure what the root of our fight is, other than that she apologized for the dress frustration, I said no biggie, yes it was frustrating but no big deal, I love you how you are---and then all heck broke loose.
Now it''s things coming up like, "I supported you through some difficult times this year, and now I hope you understand that a friendship is a two-way street, unlike before." And "You take me for granted and do not respect me." [not exact quotes, but very close, changed for anonymity]
She also went back through all our previous email and chats and complied "evidence" to show how she was right about the issue and how she had behaved perfectly about the dress (I mean, she was fine. Yes, she was a tad annoying at the beginning, but whatever. I don''t care that much, which was my point). Now she is mad that I perceived there as being a problem that supposedly was not there and making up things she did not say word for word in the emails...
I don''t know. I delete my email regularly, but more than that, it doesn''t matter to me. I''m much more concerned that now she is saying things like she feels i have looked down on her emotional and mental problems, which is never the case, I brag about her all the time!
I don''t know what is going on and I feel like I am losing my best friend 6 days before my wedding
I seriously am not sure what the root of our fight is, other than that she apologized for the dress frustration, I said no biggie, yes it was frustrating but no big deal, I love you how you are---and then all heck broke loose.
Now it''s things coming up like, "I supported you through some difficult times this year, and now I hope you understand that a friendship is a two-way street, unlike before." And "You take me for granted and do not respect me." [not exact quotes, but very close, changed for anonymity]
She also went back through all our previous email and chats and complied "evidence" to show how she was right about the issue and how she had behaved perfectly about the dress (I mean, she was fine. Yes, she was a tad annoying at the beginning, but whatever. I don''t care that much, which was my point). Now she is mad that I perceived there as being a problem that supposedly was not there and making up things she did not say word for word in the emails...
I don''t know. I delete my email regularly, but more than that, it doesn''t matter to me. I''m much more concerned that now she is saying things like she feels i have looked down on her emotional and mental problems, which is never the case, I brag about her all the time!
I don''t know what is going on and I feel like I am losing my best friend 6 days before my wedding