nicoleben
Shiny_Rock
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- May 24, 2010
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Hello everyone!!
Havent posted in quite a bit... so my bridal shower is in about 2 months exactly. My mother had mentioned about having a display of gifts instead of having people wrap them, bring them, and I open them there. She feels its a big waste of time. However, in my opinion I feel like it may come off offensive to some. #1 I do not think its right that people openly display their gift, they may not have as much money as others and get a simple gift.. this may be embarrasing to some. #2 I feel like opening gifts makes it more personal... I dont know maybe im wrong. I just dont want to offend anyone. I totally agree with my mother that it takes up a lot of time. So Im torn. At the same time, I am not hosting my shower, it really isnt up to me, and I know it won't come back on me personally.. Any suggestions? or responses? How did your bridal shower go??
Havent posted in quite a bit... so my bridal shower is in about 2 months exactly. My mother had mentioned about having a display of gifts instead of having people wrap them, bring them, and I open them there. She feels its a big waste of time. However, in my opinion I feel like it may come off offensive to some. #1 I do not think its right that people openly display their gift, they may not have as much money as others and get a simple gift.. this may be embarrasing to some. #2 I feel like opening gifts makes it more personal... I dont know maybe im wrong. I just dont want to offend anyone. I totally agree with my mother that it takes up a lot of time. So Im torn. At the same time, I am not hosting my shower, it really isnt up to me, and I know it won't come back on me personally.. Any suggestions? or responses? How did your bridal shower go??