vip0802
Brilliant_Rock
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i recently found this out and it kind of shocked me. we''re essentially best friends and i thought i knew just about everything about him. he did it some 12 years ago when he was 18 or 19, and he said it was one of those stupid things you do that you end up regretting. he was in a relationship with this girl, who he calls his "downfall". he had dropped out of college to be with her (she didn''t want to support a long distance relationship) and she also cheated on him. he felt that he was so in love with her, and he didn''t want to lose her...so he proposed and she agreed. shortly after, he had been in a terrible car accident (his head went through his windshield, and ended up suffering from Traumatic amnesia along with other injuries. i thank God everyday that he survived) yet, she rarely visited him at the hospital. after he got better, he said his "head got clear" (despite the blow to the head), and decided to finally end the relationship. she was so angry at him that she planted a fake bag of coke in one of his shirts that he left behind, and called the cops on him. unbelievable! i mean his dad is a corporal police officer for crying out loud...wouldn''t she have known that it wasn''t going to fly?
anyway, i know it really shouldn''t bother me since it wasn''t a "true love" proposal in the sense. i mean i knew about his relationship and everything else, but i just never knew about the proposal. he said he was sorry for not telling me before, but he just doesn''t care or think about that time. i totally understand what he''s saying and i know it''s not a big deal but, i guess i just always imagined that when he proposed to me, it would be his first time too. i feel kind of horrible for feeling this way, but is it wrong?
anyway, i know it really shouldn''t bother me since it wasn''t a "true love" proposal in the sense. i mean i knew about his relationship and everything else, but i just never knew about the proposal. he said he was sorry for not telling me before, but he just doesn''t care or think about that time. i totally understand what he''s saying and i know it''s not a big deal but, i guess i just always imagined that when he proposed to me, it would be his first time too. i feel kind of horrible for feeling this way, but is it wrong?