dragonfly411
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Date: 2/22/2010 3:52:32 PM
Author: packrat
I bought Dave Ramsey''s book, well, one of them-The Total Money Makeover. I thought it made a lot of sense and it got me completely pumped up and jazzed to start-but it''s not something you can do by yourself if the other person doesn''t want to do it too. Anyway, that''s the only one I''ve read, but I can recommend it!
We keep this book on our coffee table, it keeps me inspired. We''ve passed all the initial baby steps, but sometimes when I start thinking "maybe we should buy a new TV" it''s a good reminder that being weird is good!Date: 2/22/2010 3:52:32 PM
Author: packrat
I bought Dave Ramsey''s book, well, one of them-The Total Money Makeover. I thought it made a lot of sense and it got me completely pumped up and jazzed to start-but it''s not something you can do by yourself if the other person doesn''t want to do it too. Anyway, that''s the only one I''ve read, but I can recommend it!
Haha, I understand. I will sometimes read things out loud in excitement and my husband will say "Nicole, your enthusiasm is contagious, but did you really need to buy this book to tell you that not having debt, saving money and sacrificing today so you can have more tomorrow is a wise idea?" Even though the book operates on basic principals, I find it very refreshing to read at times when I get an itch to keep up with the (broke) Joneses, which is rare.Date: 2/22/2010 4:56:14 PM
Author: packrat
I wish I could get JD to read it! I got it over a year ago and no dice.
Honestly, since you two aren''t married, I''d probably focus on developing your own strategy for dealing with finances and making smart choices, and encouraging your BF to do the same. Just in case anything happens (I''m not even thinking a breakup, but more like - what if he dies before you do?) you need to be able to handle all financial decisions by yourself. So train yourself to do it now, and then figure out how to combine spending habits when you get married.Date: 2/22/2010 5:09:47 PM
Author: dragonfly411
Have any of you read Smart Couples Finish Rich?
Date: 2/22/2010 5:14:36 PM
Author: princesss
Date: 2/22/2010 5:09:47 PM
Author: dragonfly411
Have any of you read Smart Couples Finish Rich?
Honestly, since you two aren''t married, I''d probably focus on developing your own strategy for dealing with finances and making smart choices, and encouraging your BF to do the same. Just in case anything happens (I''m not even thinking a breakup, but more like - what if he dies before you do?) you need to be able to handle all financial decisions by yourself. So train yourself to do it now, and then figure out how to combine spending habits when you get married.
But that''s just my $.02
i''ve been on the SHORT side of financials in the past 9 monthsDate: 2/23/2010 11:05:54 AM
Author: dragonfly411
I have to know what you do to be able to do the oppositeI think I''m still a bit on the poor side to be playing the stock market anyways![]()
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