I had this debate last year. I have recessed lighting in my kitchen - 12 to be exact. I tried the whitest bulbs but they almost had a bluish cast and even changed the paint color on the wall! I ended up with bulbs that are more yellow (warm) than I intended but it keeps the other colors in the room true. I know I have saved a lot of money on the electric bill with these newer bulbs but I wish I could have tolerated the whiter light.
Point-source lighting is best for creating fire IIRC, whereas 'flat' diffuse lighting minimises that but shows contrast patterns well (again, IIRC...) - it might be worth looking for bulbs with exposed filaments, then, if I understand it correctly?? and having several of them. This is why spotlights are better than uplighters, I think!