meresal
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In my group of friends we almost always have a lingerie shower along with the bachelorette party.
I am helping to plan one for a very close friend, and the main girl in charge is debating not having a lingerie shower, because she thinks that some of the girls invited won't be able to afford the $100 for the weekend + lingerie gift. (Main girl in charge was just put in charge this morning, because I told the bride that there really should be one "go-to" person for everything. She offered since she is out of work right now.)
I don't want my friend to miss out on the shower part, because it is alot of fun and usually the only time the the bride gets things specifically for herself... but I don't know how to say this to the main girl without sounding like a snob.
So, would you have the shower as well, knowing that the bride would love it... or would you skip the shower because a few of the girls might make a big deal about not being able to afford something?
FYI- I found a beach house for a whole weekend, and it is only costing the girls $100/person. Am I out of line, or is this not THAT expensive? The $100 includes a $10 pitch in for food and alcohol for the whole weekend. They don't have to do anything but send a check and show up.
I might be biased here, because the girl/s that might not have enough money, already went super cheap on her Bridal shower that she hated. It was literally just people sitting around for 2 hours. No one did anything but open gifts. No food, no drinks, nothing. They didn't even attempt to decorate. I really want this to be everything she wants and more and to be an incredible weekend. I know that the bride would hate missing out on this shower.
I am helping to plan one for a very close friend, and the main girl in charge is debating not having a lingerie shower, because she thinks that some of the girls invited won't be able to afford the $100 for the weekend + lingerie gift. (Main girl in charge was just put in charge this morning, because I told the bride that there really should be one "go-to" person for everything. She offered since she is out of work right now.)
I don't want my friend to miss out on the shower part, because it is alot of fun and usually the only time the the bride gets things specifically for herself... but I don't know how to say this to the main girl without sounding like a snob.
So, would you have the shower as well, knowing that the bride would love it... or would you skip the shower because a few of the girls might make a big deal about not being able to afford something?
FYI- I found a beach house for a whole weekend, and it is only costing the girls $100/person. Am I out of line, or is this not THAT expensive? The $100 includes a $10 pitch in for food and alcohol for the whole weekend. They don't have to do anything but send a check and show up.
I might be biased here, because the girl/s that might not have enough money, already went super cheap on her Bridal shower that she hated. It was literally just people sitting around for 2 hours. No one did anything but open gifts. No food, no drinks, nothing. They didn't even attempt to decorate. I really want this to be everything she wants and more and to be an incredible weekend. I know that the bride would hate missing out on this shower.