CatLuver
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Hello mommies and mommies-to-be,
I thought I would start a thread about the different sleep books and approaches. I know there is a ton of sleep advice sprinkled in the newborn thread, and the other sleep thread, but since I don't have a baby yet, I wanted to know more about general approaches than specific advice and solutions to particular issues. I've read or skimmed a few sleep books and would love to hear which ones worked for you veteran mommies! Below are the points that I got from each book (aside from the philosophical mumbo-jumbo); if I am wrong or you have anything to add, please feel free to chime in.
Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child - Baby should be awake no more than 1-2 hours at a time. Babies refuse to sleep when they are overtired in the first place. Look for the sleepy cues. More sleep is always better and the solution to poor nighttime sleep habits is often to just put them to bed earlier, even as early as 5:30pm. Routine is key. Going to them each time they wake is not in their interest long term as it does not train them to sleep. (I found this book disorganized and very difficult to synthesize because it seemed to jump around from topic to topic, but maybe that's because I don't have a baby yet to apply all of the granular advice.)
Happiest Baby on the Block - Use the 5 S's to make the baby sleep. (But is it more trouble to have to wean off the paci later?)
No-cry Sleep Solution - Never put the baby down asleep or let them fall asleep while eating. Always put the baby down drowsy but awake. (HSHHC said this is not necessary.)
Baby Whisperer - Have not read this one yet.
Did any or all of these approaches work for you? I know it's not always simple and each baby is different, but any general thoughts would still be helpful. Also, is it the consensus that you can't really sleep train a baby (or establish "bad habits") before 3 months?
As an aside, my nephew is almost 2 and still wakes up 2-3 times a night needing to be soothed or be kept company to fall back asleep (also, he's not on any type of nap or nighttime sleep routine). I am hoping to avoid that!!!
Thanks!!!
I thought I would start a thread about the different sleep books and approaches. I know there is a ton of sleep advice sprinkled in the newborn thread, and the other sleep thread, but since I don't have a baby yet, I wanted to know more about general approaches than specific advice and solutions to particular issues. I've read or skimmed a few sleep books and would love to hear which ones worked for you veteran mommies! Below are the points that I got from each book (aside from the philosophical mumbo-jumbo); if I am wrong or you have anything to add, please feel free to chime in.
Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child - Baby should be awake no more than 1-2 hours at a time. Babies refuse to sleep when they are overtired in the first place. Look for the sleepy cues. More sleep is always better and the solution to poor nighttime sleep habits is often to just put them to bed earlier, even as early as 5:30pm. Routine is key. Going to them each time they wake is not in their interest long term as it does not train them to sleep. (I found this book disorganized and very difficult to synthesize because it seemed to jump around from topic to topic, but maybe that's because I don't have a baby yet to apply all of the granular advice.)
Happiest Baby on the Block - Use the 5 S's to make the baby sleep. (But is it more trouble to have to wean off the paci later?)
No-cry Sleep Solution - Never put the baby down asleep or let them fall asleep while eating. Always put the baby down drowsy but awake. (HSHHC said this is not necessary.)
Baby Whisperer - Have not read this one yet.
Did any or all of these approaches work for you? I know it's not always simple and each baby is different, but any general thoughts would still be helpful. Also, is it the consensus that you can't really sleep train a baby (or establish "bad habits") before 3 months?
As an aside, my nephew is almost 2 and still wakes up 2-3 times a night needing to be soothed or be kept company to fall back asleep (also, he's not on any type of nap or nighttime sleep routine). I am hoping to avoid that!!!
Thanks!!!