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Brilliant_Rock
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- Nov 12, 2008
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I need to find some major wood to knock on before I start this thread but....when does wedding planning get stressful?! I have found my planning experience to be fun, exhilarating, and I''ve been taking the time to sit back and enjoy this stage.
I am about 8 months out. Lots of big stuff is done. The stuff that isn''t, well, it will get done. I''ve got a master timeline with everything I need to do - and I have been meeting my own deadlines as if it were a work project! Family/friends have been wonderful. I''ve been sure not to sweat the small stuff. It sucks we''re dropping 15k of our own cash (a huge stress for many...) but such is life - we want the wedding we want. We aren''t worrying about it.
My sister''s friend had hives beginning 6 months from her wedding, due to stress. A girl on Facebook getting married two months after me is saying things like, "I hate this, I just want to be married already."
I am thinking the last month may be stressful with last-minute details like programs, etc. But, I am not one who is afraid to ask for help, so if its too much for me, I will ask for assistance. I am just wondering....
...when did it get stressful for everyone here? What sort of things caused the stress? How far away from the wedding did your stress begin? Is anyone here in the same boat as me, and having the time of your life with almost zero wedding stress?
I am about 8 months out. Lots of big stuff is done. The stuff that isn''t, well, it will get done. I''ve got a master timeline with everything I need to do - and I have been meeting my own deadlines as if it were a work project! Family/friends have been wonderful. I''ve been sure not to sweat the small stuff. It sucks we''re dropping 15k of our own cash (a huge stress for many...) but such is life - we want the wedding we want. We aren''t worrying about it.
My sister''s friend had hives beginning 6 months from her wedding, due to stress. A girl on Facebook getting married two months after me is saying things like, "I hate this, I just want to be married already."
I am thinking the last month may be stressful with last-minute details like programs, etc. But, I am not one who is afraid to ask for help, so if its too much for me, I will ask for assistance. I am just wondering....
...when did it get stressful for everyone here? What sort of things caused the stress? How far away from the wedding did your stress begin? Is anyone here in the same boat as me, and having the time of your life with almost zero wedding stress?