Thanks Strmdr, EM1, and others who helped assure me that the 1st stone below is a real winner. I have seen it in person, and it is amazing.
I still do have a bit of a decision to make though. A second ~2ct asscher was at the store, and it actually looked pretty good in person too (see link below). Maybe not 100% as good as the 1st diamond but still pretty good. The decision is that the 2nd stone is almost 65% the price of the 1st! That''s a lot of money that could go to the wedding band, etc. If the 1st stone was only 20% more than the 2nd, I would go with #1 but this difference is big enough that I need to take a hard look at the 2nd stone.
The 2nd stone has some strange dimensions (compared to strmdr''s target #s) --67% table, 69% depth, 14% crown -- but it looked pretty good to the eye. You could see the steps nicely, and nice fire. Maybe slightly darker in the center than the 1st.
This is a tough call. Well from the experts, is the 2nd stone still kickin or just ok? I will likely have to decide tomorrow.
Thanks!
1st stone:
http://www.goodoldgold.com/diamond/3598
2nd stone:
http://www.goodoldgold.com/diamond/4599