Erinleigh
Shiny_Rock
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- May 8, 2009
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Hi all!
I''m wondering when during the planning process you''re supposed to ask your bridesmaids/groomsmen to actually be bridesmaids/groomsmen? FI and I are planning a two year engagement (tentative date: Sept 24, 2011) and want to ask people at the right time. I guess we worry that a lot can change in two years, and perhaps the close friends that we''re considering now (that are long distance) might not be as close two years from now? I guess my question is: Is asking now too early or is waiting a year weird?
I''m wondering when during the planning process you''re supposed to ask your bridesmaids/groomsmen to actually be bridesmaids/groomsmen? FI and I are planning a two year engagement (tentative date: Sept 24, 2011) and want to ask people at the right time. I guess we worry that a lot can change in two years, and perhaps the close friends that we''re considering now (that are long distance) might not be as close two years from now? I guess my question is: Is asking now too early or is waiting a year weird?