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For a variety of reasons, we''re considering the idea of having two ceremonies - a legal one this June, then a spiritual one with family and friends (on the opposite coast) next June.
I''m curious if anyone else has done this, and if so, would you share some thoughts on it? Would you do it again? Did you regret it (if you''re comfortable being honest about it)? Did you get a lot of grief from family and/or friends? Do you feel like your second ceremony was as special as it would have been if you hadn''t had a previous one?
If needed, I''ll go into the details but there''s nothing dramatic (baby on the way, deployed, etc.). It just would make things a lot easier on us and better for our lives. I should add that FI and I have been together for nearly 3 years, and have lived together since August of 2009. Both of us are definitely at the point in our relationship where we wouldn''t feel rushed into marriage. The only reason we planned it so far out is to allow friends and family to attend, and save money for the wedding.
Thanks!
I''m curious if anyone else has done this, and if so, would you share some thoughts on it? Would you do it again? Did you regret it (if you''re comfortable being honest about it)? Did you get a lot of grief from family and/or friends? Do you feel like your second ceremony was as special as it would have been if you hadn''t had a previous one?
If needed, I''ll go into the details but there''s nothing dramatic (baby on the way, deployed, etc.). It just would make things a lot easier on us and better for our lives. I should add that FI and I have been together for nearly 3 years, and have lived together since August of 2009. Both of us are definitely at the point in our relationship where we wouldn''t feel rushed into marriage. The only reason we planned it so far out is to allow friends and family to attend, and save money for the wedding.
Thanks!