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Another Texting Question

kenny

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I understand 97% of the texts I get; they're just the usual texts, identical format.
When I turn on my iPhone SE3's screen there's a green icon in the lower right corner.
Inside the icon is, a white elliptical text bubble and a little red circle showing the number of text waiting for me to open, if any.

When I open them it shows them listed.
When clicking on one it shows the contact's name and/or the 10-digit number it came from, like (123)456-7890.

All that is good.
BUT
There is another thing I receive that perplexes me.
I'm not even sure it's officially considered a text.
Here's what I see.
When turning on the screen it instantly appears.
Initially it would appear to be a text someone sent to me.
FWIW, I do recognize who sent it, usually a business.

But I'm in such a habit of immediately going to the Home Screen that I usually miss it because that makes it vanish, and is NOT in the list of incoming unread texts.

I think it contains the beginning of their message on the right side of the popup, and on the left is a little square that says, "OPEN".
If I do open it, I'll see the whole msg.
But if I don't open it right then, it vanishes forever, and I have no way of knowing whom it was from, or what it said.
These are never included in that numeral in the green text icon's red dot indicating how many text I've received that I need to open.

Also, it doesn't come from a usual 10-digit phone number, like (123)456-7890
It comes from a number with around 6 digits with no spacing, like, 64877 ... which is not even a phone number that I could call.

WTF is this, and is there a way to stop this and force them to come to me in the usual way/format that all other texts arrive?
 
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Something similar happened to me. Bought an Apple product last week to pick up in person in my town. They sent me a couple confirmation emails in rapid succession. They then tried to text me the QR code that I would need to pick it up -- but they sent it via a type of message that I had to elect to opt into (vs. "keep using SMS") that they said would "let businesses talk to me directly!" and I immediately clicked "keep using SMS" (instead) and the text evaporated. And when I showed up at the store, Apple SA said "Where's your QR code, dummy?" I could only produce the two confirmatory emails and they had to do a lot of digging.

This is all I know about the various types of texts (iMessage, SMS, RCS): https://support.apple.com/en-us/104972

I don't think Apple would need me to opt into iMessage since that's mostly what I get. So I don't know what that "new" business-friendly type of text was -- I don't remember the acronym but it was clearly pretty volatile.
 
@LilAlex
Thanks much.
That helps.

At least now I know how to approach my questions to apple, and my cell carrier.

Oh how I long for the 1960s ... a bygone era when phones were cheap, reliable, and simple.
It does one thing; just pick it up and used it.
We weren't hypnotized by a screen that we live in all day. :nono:

I see phones today as a nightmare, a ubiquitous scourge!
 
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It might be what they call "notifications". Under "settings", scroll down about half way and look at Notifications. It's a red icon with a white bell. You can see the settings for them there. Notifications will show on your screen but I think that once you see them, they may disappear.
Here's what it looks like in settings
Screenshot 2025-07-13 at 11.31.19 AM.jpeg

Does your phone have a "tips" icon? Mine does and shows this. I've never looked for notifications that have disappeared, so I don't know if this actually works.

Screenshot 2025-07-13 at 11.45.18 AM.jpeg
 
Thanks much.
You two are a couple of Globsends. :saint:
 
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