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Smith1942|1374712390|3489556 said:It goes back to the rules of primogeniture. Plain old sexism, in other words.
A sovereign queen, as opposed to a queen consort, cannot make her husband a king. Similarly, the daughter of a sovereign, a princess, cannot make her husband a prince. Only men, you see, have the ability to confer princess or queen status on their spouse. A king always trumps a queen, so Prince Philip is not king.
When William succeeds to the throne, Kate will be queen because a king makes his spouse a queen, but not the other way round. However, she will not be the Sovereign, and she will not be the Monarch. Only the person who is born to rule - like the new Prince George - will be the Sovereign and Monarch. Kate's official title will be Queen Consort.
When I said that the daughter of a sovereign cannot make her husband a prince, that is why neither of Princess Anne's husbands were called Prince after they married her. They remained Captain Mark Philips and Timothy Laurence. This is the reason why Princess Anne's daughter and son are Zara and Mark Philips, and why her brother Prince Andrew's children are princesses. Princesses Beatrice and Eugenie, but Zara and Mark Philips. Princess Anne declined HRH status for her children, but they could never have been princes or princesses unless she had married a prince.
In addition, Carole Middleton will be the queen's mother but she will never be Queen Mother. The Queen Mother is someone who is the mother of a reigning monarch and has also been a queen herself. So, when Kate's son succeeds the throne, if Kate is still alive she will be called Queen Mother, like the last Queen Mother who died in 2002. She was the current queen's mother and had been Queen Consort to George VI when Edward abdicated. Kate will have been Queen Consort and then will be the mother of a reigning monarch.
Clear as mud??
You asked who decides...the system is at least a thousand years old.
ETA: Rosetta put it much more succintly!
babs23r|1374713057|3489560 said:ok guys, here goes. Rosetta got it mostly correct, except that Queen Elizabeth could have named Prince Philip as King Consort. it was her decision not to "upgrade " his title, albeit in name only. Princess Anne's children could have been named Prince and Princess, but Princess Anne didn't want to put the burden of prince and princess on them because of all of the pressure that would come with the title.She knew that they would never be put on the throne , so that was her decision. Lady Diana was not really a " commoner" because she was born an aristocrat. Also, Prince Charles had to ,marry a virgin, pretty hard to find a royal one. Kate is a real commoner, but because of the disastrous marriage of Charles and Diana, they let William marry for love. Kate will be Queen Consort. Lord knows what Camilla will be called, the ghost of Diana still lurks. Whew, I 'm exhausted.
Smith1942|1374713725|3489569 said:babs23r|1374713057|3489560 said:ok guys, here goes. Rosetta got it mostly correct, except that Queen Elizabeth could have named Prince Philip as King Consort. it was her decision not to "upgrade " his title, albeit in name only. Princess Anne's children could have been named Prince and Princess, but Princess Anne didn't want to put the burden of prince and princess on them because of all of the pressure that would come with the title.She knew that they would never be put on the throne , so that was her decision. Lady Diana was not really a " commoner" because she was born an aristocrat. Also, Prince Charles had to ,marry a virgin, pretty hard to find a royal one. Kate is a real commoner, but because of the disastrous marriage of Charles and Diana, they let William marry for love. Kate will be Queen Consort. Lord knows what Camilla will be called, the ghost of Diana still lurks. Whew, I 'm exhausted.
Sorry, Babs, but you're completely wrong about all those things. Princess Anne declined an HRH status for her children, but they could never have been prince or princess unless she had married a prince. They could have been called Her/His Royal Highness, and that's what Anne declined for them, but their father was untitled and was not a prince. The rules of primogeniture say that a princess cannot confer prince status on her husband. Therefore the children are not the children of a prince, and it's the male line that confers the status.
The title King Consort does not exist, and has never existed. A king is always a sovereign. A king always trumps a queen. That is why Philip is Prince Philip and not King Philip.
Lastly, Diana was indeed a commoner. The bluest-blood aristocrat is still a commoner. "Commoner" merely means that you are not royal. You are only royal if you have married into the royal family or you are born into it. You are only royal if you have the title "His Royal Highness" or "Her Royal Highness". No aristocrat has that title; they are earl, duke, lady, countess, marquess etc but they are not royal. There is only royal or commoner, nothing in between. So, odd as it sounds, Lady Diana Spencer was indeed a commoner, as were all the characters of Downton Abbey, had they been real. What those aristocrats are is upper-class.
When you say you don't know what Camilla will be called, I do. She will be Queen Consort, and Queen Camilla. That is the system and that is what will happen. It's like when Americans ask me, a lot, "Do you think Prince Charles will be king?" It annoys me because that's as nonsensical as me asking, "Do you think Obama will get a third term?" The system is the system and it does not change, ever. The only way that Charles will not be king is if he dies before the Queen. And assuming he outlives her, he will be King, Sovereign, Monarch, Supreme Governor of the Church of England and Defender of the Faith, and Camilla will be queen. It has been thus for at least a thousand years, it is enshrined, and the chances of it changing are about as likely as Obama is to get a third term.
JulieN|1374714220|3489575 said:It is not so inconsistent, the man has always bestowed his name, and titles on the woman he marries, and not the other way around.
Just like the wife of Prince Michael of Kent is Princess Michael of Kent, the wife of Mr John Doe is Mrs John Doe.
AGBF|1374714846|3489586 said:Smith1942|1374713725|3489569 said:babs23r|1374713057|3489560 said:ok guys, here goes. Rosetta got it mostly correct, except that Queen Elizabeth could have named Prince Philip as King Consort. it was her decision not to "upgrade " his title, albeit in name only. Princess Anne's children could have been named Prince and Princess, but Princess Anne didn't want to put the burden of prince and princess on them because of all of the pressure that would come with the title.She knew that they would never be put on the throne , so that was her decision. Lady Diana was not really a " commoner" because she was born an aristocrat. Also, Prince Charles had to ,marry a virgin, pretty hard to find a royal one. Kate is a real commoner, but because of the disastrous marriage of Charles and Diana, they let William marry for love. Kate will be Queen Consort. Lord knows what Camilla will be called, the ghost of Diana still lurks. Whew, I 'm exhausted.
Sorry, Babs, but you're completely wrong about all those things. Princess Anne declined an HRH status for her children, but they could never have been prince or princess unless she had married a prince. They could have been called Her/His Royal Highness, and that's what Anne declined for them, but their father was untitled and was not a prince. The rules of primogeniture say that a princess cannot confer prince status on her husband. Therefore the children are not the children of a prince, and it's the male line that confers the status.
The title King Consort does not exist, and has never existed. A king is always a sovereign. A king always trumps a queen. That is why Philip is Prince Philip and not King Philip.
Lastly, Diana was indeed a commoner. The bluest-blood aristocrat is still a commoner. "Commoner" merely means that you are not royal. You are only royal if you have married into the royal family or you are born into it. You are only royal if you have the title "His Royal Highness" or "Her Royal Highness". No aristocrat has that title; they are earl, duke, lady, countess, marquess etc but they are not royal. There is only royal or commoner, nothing in between. So, odd as it sounds, Lady Diana Spencer was indeed a commoner, as were all the characters of Downton Abbey, had they been real. What those aristocrats are is upper-class.
When you say you don't know what Camilla will be called, I do. She will be Queen Consort, and Queen Camilla. That is the system and that is what will happen. It's like when Americans ask me, a lot, "Do you think Prince Charles will be king?" It annoys me because that's as nonsensical as me asking, "Do you think Obama will get a third term?" The system is the system and it does not change, ever. The only way that Charles will not be king is if he dies before the Queen. And assuming he outlives her, he will be King, Sovereign, Monarch, Supreme Governor of the Church of England and Defender of the Faith, and Camilla will be queen. It has been thus for at least a thousand years, it is enshrined, and the chances of it changing are about as likely as Obama is to get a third term.
Good work, Smith. Except, and I shall have to look this up, if one has a seat in the House of Lords I am not sure one is common.
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Smith1942|1374715477|3489596 said:AGBF|1374714846|3489586 said:Good work, Smith. Except, and I shall have to look this up, if one has a seat in the House of Lords I am not sure one is common.
Hah, well, in today's UK, anybody can be elected to the House of Lords - which is a good thing, since it only used to be hereditary peers and they were all aristocrats....
justginger|1374711277|3489548 said:Something along the lines of Kings being only born, not made (via marriage), but Queens can be born OR made?
babs23r|1374717091|3489625 said:ok, let me know if I am wrong about this, but from what I understand, the Queen could have given Princess Anne's husband a title, and her children could have been royal. She didn't want that for her children. it seems as if the Queen can bestow a title on anyone. the Middletons now have a coat of arms that was given to them by the queen.
AGBF|1374716287|3489611 said:Smith1942|1374715477|3489596 said:AGBF|1374714846|3489586 said:Good work, Smith. Except, and I shall have to look this up, if one has a seat in the House of Lords I am not sure one is common.
Hah, well, in today's UK, anybody can be elected to the House of Lords - which is a good thing, since it only used to be hereditary peers and they were all aristocrats....
This was on another website and I believe it is correct. "Nobles in Britain are the holder of the title only - not their spouse or children.
They were aristocrats but not nobles. Lord Lorne who married Queen Victoria's daughter Louise was also a commoner as was almost the husband of Edward VII's daughter Louise. The reason I say almost was that Victoria created him Duke of Fife for the wedding thus raising him to noble status."
If one was noble, one was not common. But only the title holder, who could sit in The House of Lords, was noble, The family might be aristocracy, but was not noble. Thus the family of the peer was common. The website pointed out that Lady Diana Spencer was common. Princess Margaret's husband, on the other hand, was ennobled-made the Earl of Snowden-before they were married.
AGBF
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Gypsy|1374717461|3489632 said:babs23r|1374717091|3489625 said:ok, let me know if I am wrong about this, but from what I understand, the Queen could have given Princess Anne's husband a title, and her children could have been royal. She didn't want that for her children. it seems as if the Queen can bestow a title on anyone. the Middletons now have a coat of arms that was given to them by the queen.
No. Two separate things.
A title doesn't make you royal. It makes a peer.
Being a peer still means being commoner unless you are royal.
Letters of Patent can 'make' you royal.
Anne declined TWO things. She declined titles/peerage for her husband (that her children could inherit). AND she declined "HRH" designation" ( and Letters Patent) for her children.
She could have accepted the titles/peerage. Declined the HRH and Letters Patent. Kids still common. Can inherit titles.
She could have declined the titles. Accepted the HRH and Letters Patent. Kids have no titles. Are Royal.
It's the HRH/Letters Patent thing that technically makes you "Royal" not a peerage.
babs23r|1374717091|3489625 said:ok, let me know if I am wrong about this, but from what I understand, the Queen could have given Princess Anne's husband a title, and her children could have been royal. She didn't want that for her children. it seems as if the Queen can bestow a title on anyone. the Middletons now have a coat of arms that was given to them by the queen.
Gypsy|1374716604|3489616 said:From what I understand: when people say Kate is a "commoner" (as contrasted to Diana)... what they are really saying is "her family was not from the aristocracy or from royalty, and they are from the middle class by birth." In contrast, Diana was from an aristocratic family. She did not hold title before her marriage (Her father was a Viscount then an Earl and her mother was also from aristocracy and upon her marriage her title was a courtesy through her husband-- per Smith on primogeniture above)-- so Diana wasn't a ' peer or peeress' either. She was addressed as Lady Diana Spencer, but that did not make her a peer as "lady," in this context, is a courtesy prefix reflecting her status as an Earl's daughter only. So she was a 'commoner' but she was an 'aristocrat' by birth. They are not mutually exclusive. Kate is a commoner, and by birth her family isn't aristocratic. Kate is more "Princess Grace" than "Princess Diana." Hopefully her marriage will be happier than either of those lady's.
I think the options are:
Commoner
Peer (still commoner but you have a substantive title) or Peeress (including female peers in their own right, and the wives of holders of peerage titles by courtesy)
Royal married or born royal to a male royal and legitimate (and to be styled His/Her Royal Highness you have the letters patent conferring that on you) or born to a female royal and have a special designation granted to your children (which Princess Anne refused) and legitimate.
A commoner can be from any class-- even royalty (if the parents have declined the formal titles like Zara Philips). And so can a peer (a person granted a title can be born from any class). So you can be a peer without being royalty-- therefore commoner. And you can be a peer AND be royalty. And you can be born into a royal family and still be a commoner (Zara Philips).
It's weird. And I didn't even really get into 'courtesy titles' or morganatic marriages.
Feel free to correct me if I am wrong.
AGBF|1374716287|3489611 said:Smith1942|1374715477|3489596 said:AGBF|1374714846|3489586 said:Good work, Smith. Except, and I shall have to look this up, if one has a seat in the House of Lords I am not sure one is common.
Hah, well, in today's UK, anybody can be elected to the House of Lords - which is a good thing, since it only used to be hereditary peers and they were all aristocrats....
This was on another website and I believe it is correct. "Nobles in Britain are the holder of the title only - not their spouse or children.
They were aristocrats but not nobles. Lord Lorne who married Queen Victoria's daughter Louise was also a commoner as was almost the husband of Edward VII's daughter Louise. The reason I say almost was that Victoria created him Duke of Fife for the wedding thus raising him to noble status."
If one was noble, one was not common. But only the title holder, who could sit in The House of Lords, was noble, The family might be aristocracy, but was not noble. Thus the family of the peer was common. The website pointed out that Lady Diana Spencer was common. Princess Margaret's husband, on the other hand, was ennobled-made the Earl of Snowden-before they were married.
AGBF
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AprilBaby|1374721895|3489687 said:Do they have a last name?