Amethyste
Ideal_Rock
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I have had my hair short short short since my early 20''s. it is naturally wavy/curly.
Since October of 2009, i have been letting it grow out and personally, i have been enjoying
it that way. though i need to use mousse and hairspray, drying my hair with a diffuser has not been
that complicated for me actually and i like it at the moment. My scalp has not been that itchy cause it
keeps moisture i guess, so it''s nice!
Yesterday, my husband was on Skype with his parents that live in Germany and i popped into the last 2 mins of
the conversation to say "Hello" and his mother said " your hair is longer now! it was nice when it was short. "
I didn''t really think a lot of it at that time, we said goodbye and that was it.
This morning, my husband goes back online to talk to his parents again, cause his brother was visiting then and
wanted to catch him. When he spoke to his mother, she apparently mentioned to him that i looked nicer when my hair was
shorter. And of course, he comes upstairs from him man cave and I asked him how his parents were doing and what thy talked
about etc... Then he relayed to me what his mother said about my hair. And then said that he doesn''t like it that much either - even though, he said last week that he liked my hairstyle at that time.
I did remind him what he said last week, then he just said " Well, I am your husband, and my opinion doesn''t count? I don''t like it like that at all, I miss the short style". I did say that I wanted a change since I''ve had my hair short for the last 18 years of my life and i might not even keep it that way, I just wanted a change. Then he said " Well, I am going to grow a ponytail now... " just to be spiteful? I just finished working this morning, came home and that was one of the first words we exchanged this morning... Just a weird way to start a Sunday I would say!
I think it is kinda sad that there is nothing more important to talk about than my friggin'' hair? I think my husband is being easily influenced by what others say... Now I want to grow it to the middle of my back!
Here are pictures of the before and after... Your thoughts on this? I shouldn''t even care about what SHE says, but if I really look like a goof-ball and my hair looks REALLY ugly, please let me know - as the comments coming from him and her really caught me off-guard. only him and her have told me these negative comments - as my clients and co-workers have all said they like it better the way I wear it - frames my face nicely...

Since October of 2009, i have been letting it grow out and personally, i have been enjoying
it that way. though i need to use mousse and hairspray, drying my hair with a diffuser has not been
that complicated for me actually and i like it at the moment. My scalp has not been that itchy cause it
keeps moisture i guess, so it''s nice!
Yesterday, my husband was on Skype with his parents that live in Germany and i popped into the last 2 mins of
the conversation to say "Hello" and his mother said " your hair is longer now! it was nice when it was short. "
I didn''t really think a lot of it at that time, we said goodbye and that was it.
This morning, my husband goes back online to talk to his parents again, cause his brother was visiting then and
wanted to catch him. When he spoke to his mother, she apparently mentioned to him that i looked nicer when my hair was
shorter. And of course, he comes upstairs from him man cave and I asked him how his parents were doing and what thy talked
about etc... Then he relayed to me what his mother said about my hair. And then said that he doesn''t like it that much either - even though, he said last week that he liked my hairstyle at that time.
I did remind him what he said last week, then he just said " Well, I am your husband, and my opinion doesn''t count? I don''t like it like that at all, I miss the short style". I did say that I wanted a change since I''ve had my hair short for the last 18 years of my life and i might not even keep it that way, I just wanted a change. Then he said " Well, I am going to grow a ponytail now... " just to be spiteful? I just finished working this morning, came home and that was one of the first words we exchanged this morning... Just a weird way to start a Sunday I would say!
I think it is kinda sad that there is nothing more important to talk about than my friggin'' hair? I think my husband is being easily influenced by what others say... Now I want to grow it to the middle of my back!
Here are pictures of the before and after... Your thoughts on this? I shouldn''t even care about what SHE says, but if I really look like a goof-ball and my hair looks REALLY ugly, please let me know - as the comments coming from him and her really caught me off-guard. only him and her have told me these negative comments - as my clients and co-workers have all said they like it better the way I wear it - frames my face nicely...

