Antique Chic
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Apr 17, 2007
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Hi everyone!
I guess I''m a LIW; not sure if I should get ''on the list''. Is there a literal list or is that metaphorical?
Here''s my situation: my BF is 47, divorced with 2 kids, I''m 32, never married (but was engaged for a long time) with 1 child. Neither of is in in a hurry to get married but hopefully we will be engaged in another year or so. We have to sell 2 houses, buy a 3rd, and move somewhere in between. Plus blending 3 pre-teens should be interesting.
Here''s my question: we started dating almost immediately after we met just over 4 yrs ago when he was separated from his now ex. After a few months I decided I needed to step back and just support him as a friend through the divorce and ended up dating someone else. That lasted 18 mos (I didn''t end it sooner because I was afraid my son was going to be very upset so I waited for school to let out). We became good friends during this time and as soon as we broke up I started dating my BF again in May or June of ''07. Since things have kind of evolved naturally, we don''t have a particular anniversary that we celebrate, which for some odd reason hasn''t been a big deal (normally I''m VERY sentimental with that kind of thing), but I never know what to tell people when they ask how long we''ve been dating! Plus since we are now looking forward to a long life together, I would like to have an actual anniversary to celebrate. Maybe he would propose on that date or we would get married on that date. Should I use the day we met? Pick a date from May/June ''07? He doesn''t really care, so I guess I can pick a date and it''s official. lol
Anyone else have any experience with a relationship that evolved out of a friendship or on-again off-again relationships? What date do you use?
Thanks
I guess I''m a LIW; not sure if I should get ''on the list''. Is there a literal list or is that metaphorical?
Here''s my situation: my BF is 47, divorced with 2 kids, I''m 32, never married (but was engaged for a long time) with 1 child. Neither of is in in a hurry to get married but hopefully we will be engaged in another year or so. We have to sell 2 houses, buy a 3rd, and move somewhere in between. Plus blending 3 pre-teens should be interesting.
Here''s my question: we started dating almost immediately after we met just over 4 yrs ago when he was separated from his now ex. After a few months I decided I needed to step back and just support him as a friend through the divorce and ended up dating someone else. That lasted 18 mos (I didn''t end it sooner because I was afraid my son was going to be very upset so I waited for school to let out). We became good friends during this time and as soon as we broke up I started dating my BF again in May or June of ''07. Since things have kind of evolved naturally, we don''t have a particular anniversary that we celebrate, which for some odd reason hasn''t been a big deal (normally I''m VERY sentimental with that kind of thing), but I never know what to tell people when they ask how long we''ve been dating! Plus since we are now looking forward to a long life together, I would like to have an actual anniversary to celebrate. Maybe he would propose on that date or we would get married on that date. Should I use the day we met? Pick a date from May/June ''07? He doesn''t really care, so I guess I can pick a date and it''s official. lol
Anyone else have any experience with a relationship that evolved out of a friendship or on-again off-again relationships? What date do you use?
Thanks