Am I sexually harassing Jordyonbass?

[kenny]

It's not like I'm his boss and pinching his @$$, but I've posted a couple times that I think he's good lookin.
If I did that about a woman here I think I'd be hanged, drawn and quartered.

I'm conflicted.
On one hand it seems all in good fun, but then I think about the gender-inconsistency of it.

... but Hey! ... DF gets away with posting show-me-your 4oobs type stuff.
You gals seem to not call him on it or report him ...

And does Jordy being straight/married, and I gay/coupled factor to this?

Or, is it flattering, and no big deal?
Next, does any women here relish a man finally suffering through such rude and unwanted 'attention'?

Penny for your thoughts.

 

[Dancing Fire]

It's not like I'm his boss and pinching his @)$&, but I've posted a couple times that I think he's good lookin.
If I did that about a woman here I think I'd be hanged, drawn and quartered.

I'm conflicted.
On one hand it seems all in good fun, but I think about the gender-inconsistency of it.

... but then ... DF gets away with posting some show-me-your 4oobs type stuff.

Penny for your thoughts.

Kenny
Please don't show me yours!...

 

[partgypsy]

Only us women get to sexually harrass Jordyonbass, OK?

 

[kenny]

Only us women get to sexually harrass Jordyonbass, OK?

But what about equal rights?

 

[jordyonbass]

Only us women get to sexually harrass Jordyonbass, OK?

But what about equal rights?

Now now, there's plenty of me to sexually harrass for everyone

 

[kenny]

Only us women get to sexually harrass Jordyonbass, OK?

But what about equal rights?

Now now, there's plenty of me to sexually harrass for everyone

 

[AGBF]

Only us women get to sexually harrass Jordyonbass, OK?

But what about equal rights?

Now now, there's plenty of me to sexually harrass for everyone

Well, there you have it. It's his call, kenny. I said I would leave him alone because he was married, but if he's going to allow you to play, then you can play without guilt.

Deb

 

[gregchang35]

But.... Even if jordybass gives u the green light, what are you going to do..... Are you going to be happy that you are going outside the realm of your r/ship with SO? Is SO going to be happy about that?

Maybe it's just a bit of fun on PS....???

Flirting and all that... Cyber fun, is alright, right???

 

[gregchang35]

I am assuming by the tone in this email that this post is a bit of tongue in cheek... Oh- did that come out alright? Which cheek is that?? It is that whose cheek??? Oh the mind boggles.

 

[jordyonbass]

Agree with Deb here, it's up to the 'harrassed' party and how they feel about it. In this case I am willing to publicly say that cyber flirting is allowed if he leaves his collections of guitars and FCDs in his will to me

But as gregchang35 said, how his SO reacts to it is his issue to deal with and not mine - it's just a bit of fun on PS that gives me a good chuckle

 

[kenny]

- it's just a bit of fun on PS that gives me a good chuckle

+1

 

[jordyonbass]

I said I would leave him alone because he was married, but if he's going to allow you to play, then you can play without guilt.

Deb

I believe in equal opportunity harrassment for all Deb, feel free

 

[monarch64]

All I know about Jordy is that he's married, is maybe a pirate or just dressed up like one for his wedding, plays bass guitar and is a fisherman. So when I was just browsing Pinterest and came across this shirt, after seeing this thread, I had to post it here. Forgive me if this offends anyone, I thought it was appropriate for this thread. I suppose it could be construed as sexual harassment but Jordy seems amenable to being harassed by any of us so I'll take my chances.

http://zapbest.com/collections/hobby/products/fishing-rod?pp=0

 

[jordyonbass]

All I know about Jordy is that he's married, is maybe a pirate or just dressed up like one for his wedding, plays bass guitar and is a fisherman. So when I was just browsing Pinterest and came across this shirt, after seeing this thread, I had to post it here. Forgive me if this offends anyone, I thought it was appropriate for this thread. I suppose it could be construed as sexual harassment but Jordy seems amenable to being harassed by any of us so I'll take my chances.

http://zapbest.com/collections/hobby/products/fishing-rod?pp=0

Don't forget apprentice gem geek!! I get a few odd looks at the local lapidary club when I walk in with a Metal band shirt on. And I've seen that shirt before, it's hilarious!! I have one in my drawer at home that says:

'FISHING: A jerk at one end of the line waiting for a jerk at the other end of the line'

 

[monarch64]

All I know about Jordy is that he's married, is maybe a pirate or just dressed up like one for his wedding, plays bass guitar and is a fisherman. So when I was just browsing Pinterest and came across this shirt, after seeing this thread, I had to post it here. Forgive me if this offends anyone, I thought it was appropriate for this thread. I suppose it could be construed as sexual harassment but Jordy seems amenable to being harassed by any of us so I'll take my chances.

http://zapbest.com/collections/hobby/products/fishing-rod?pp=0

Don't forget apprentice gem geek!! I get a few odd looks at the local lapidary club when I walk in with a Metal band shirt on. And I've seen that shirt before, it's hilarious!! I have one in my drawer at home that says:

'FISHING: A jerk at one end of the line waiting for a jerk at the other end of the line'

Whoops, I will add "apprentice gem geek" to your c.v. in my head. LOL at the jerk shirt!

 

[OreoRosies86]

Jordy seems like cool people. But. Is he a Melvins fan?

 

[JaneSmith]

Agree with Deb here, it's up to the 'harrassed' party and how they feel about it. In this case I am willing to publicly say that cyber flirting is allowed if he leaves his collections of guitars and FCDs in his will to me

But as gregchang35 said, how his SO reacts to it is his issue to deal with and not mine - it's just a bit of fun on PS that gives me a good chuckle

That little blue pear is mine jordy, I don't care how gorgeous you are.

 

[kenny]

In this case I am willing to publicly say that cyber flirting is allowed if he leaves his collections of guitars and FCDs in his will to me

That little blue pear is mine jordy, I don't care how gorgeous you are.

Whaaa!

... and all this time I thought you loved me for my wonderful personality!

 

[JaneSmith]

 

[lillulu]

Interesting forum topic...so his married and straight and yet he still thinks it's ok for you to be 'sexually harassing' him without feeling guilty? I'm sure he has even told his wife you do it, but he probably doesn't tell her he flirts back! Lol. Have fun you 2 love birds

 

[arkieb1]

Jordy seems like a lovely guy. Most Aussies in general are pretty relaxed sort of people. I think anyone that knows Kenny and DF take what they say with a grain of salt. I dare say it's only harassment if the other party actually feels "harassed."

 

[jordyonbass]

Aww thanks arkieb! I like to think I'm as chilled as the other side of the pillow!!

Plus it's not like this is the first time a gay man has made such comments towards me. I'm used to it

 

[kenny]

Aww thanks arkieb! I like to think I'm as chilled as the other side of the pillow!!

Plus it's not like this is the first time a gay man has made such comments towards me. I'm used to it

Okay now I'm jealous.
Who is he?
I'll rip that bitch's tiara off!


... "as chilled as the other side of the pillow!"
Great saying.

@ Jane ...

 

[lillulu]

So would your wife be ok if we flirted? No need to feel guilty right? xox

 

[jordyonbass]

So would your wife be ok if we flirted? No need to feel guilty right? xox

If 'we' flirted, no she wouldn't be. But that's not what is happening here.

I'm not flirting, I'm having a laugh with some light hearted banter on a public forum. There's no private messages or anything like that, it's all for the public to see. If someone wanted to flirt genuinely I'd most likely be blind to it to be honest!!

 

[lillulu]

You are a decent man! Not many of you out there. Your wife is one lucky girl.

 

[jordyonbass]

Thanks! She's a special lady to let me wear a pirate suit on our wedding day, we like to think we're quite the quirky couple in that regard. Wouldn't trade her for the world

 

[kenny]

I'm not flirting, I'm having a laugh with some light hearted banter on a public forum.

+1

Jordy's a good sport!

 

[kenny]

Thanks! She's a special lady to let me wear a pirate suit on our wedding day, we like to think we're quite the quirky couple in that regard. Wouldn't trade her for the world

Not even for a 'Rick'?

 

[dk168]

Don't know what the fuss is about, however, I was not aware of any fuss being kicked up.

If I like someone, I would say so, regardless of that person's gender, sexual preferences and age, or my own.

I have been called a cougar for liking younger gents.

To me, age is just a number, and I cannot help it that I still have a pulse!

DK