- Aug 25, 2006
I feel like I am completely ruining the surprise of engagement and I am scared it won’t be a surprise when it actually happens. My boyfriend & I have been talking about getting married since last June and we pretty much know everything that we want to do for our wedding, we just have to make it official. However, I also know that he wants to get married this August, 2007. I have asked about extending the possible dates until November 2007 or even sometime 2008 and he is dead set against it. He would agree to November 2007, but he said he would prefer not. So this is the deal, he gave me the “time” frame between my best friends wedding, which was January 20th, and my birthday, which is in April. But due to the August time frame, I know it will most likely be in February. Do you think I am ruining the whole surprise of engagement by knowing this or thinking about it?
Besides my little sister, I am the only girl in my family that knows that it is (was in their cases) coming. Also, my little sister thought it would happen a week after it actually did and was caught completely by surprise. Do you think I will still have that surprise element?