IrishAngel7982
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Hello everyone, I''m a hopeless romantic so I love looking at diamonds and in doing so found this forum. Anyway, I love my boyfriend with all of my heart and marriage is coming in the next 1-2 years...when I finish grad school and we decide if I''m moving to New Jersey or he''s moving back home to Chicago. He told me about a month ago that he has a diamond that has been passed down in his family for generations and he wants to have it set to give to me as an engagement ring when the time comes. He said it was a gorgeous diamond, about 3/4 carat, and he thought it was appraised at around $6,000 a few years back. I thought, good for him he can save his money, and it sounds gorgeous right? Anyway I was visiting him and we went to Manhattan so his best friend/roommate brought us to Tiffany''s. My honey called his parents just to find out the specifics of what I''d be getting and she said that the diamond is 1/2 carat. I''m sure it''s absolutely gorgeous and I''ll just be elated when he officially asks me to spend the rest of my life with him, but here is what I''ve been worried about:
1.) My mother''s engagement ring is a quality 1/2 carat round diamond and it''s beautiful (set in a thin yellow gold band which is what I''ve always wanted), but I''ve tried it on before and I don''t like how it looks on my hand (size 7.)
2.) Being the only girl in my huge Irish family, I''ve been told to "never accept anything less than 1 carat."
3.) Being that this diamond has been passed down through my boyfriend''s family, he has already said that he''d like to be able to give it to our children or grandchildren one day. I know my engagement ring and wedding ring will be my most prized possessions so I also know I''m never giving them away.
There''s my dilemma...I know this is at least a year off so I don''t want to cause any tension, but I''m conflicted because I don''t know if I''m being materialistic in really wanting close to 1 carat, and never wanting to give my diamond away. I''m afraid the day will come where I might be disappointed and I don''t want to put that on him, because everything is perfect with us. Sorry for the long post, I know I''m rambling...what do you think?
1.) My mother''s engagement ring is a quality 1/2 carat round diamond and it''s beautiful (set in a thin yellow gold band which is what I''ve always wanted), but I''ve tried it on before and I don''t like how it looks on my hand (size 7.)
2.) Being the only girl in my huge Irish family, I''ve been told to "never accept anything less than 1 carat."
3.) Being that this diamond has been passed down through my boyfriend''s family, he has already said that he''d like to be able to give it to our children or grandchildren one day. I know my engagement ring and wedding ring will be my most prized possessions so I also know I''m never giving them away.
There''s my dilemma...I know this is at least a year off so I don''t want to cause any tension, but I''m conflicted because I don''t know if I''m being materialistic in really wanting close to 1 carat, and never wanting to give my diamond away. I''m afraid the day will come where I might be disappointed and I don''t want to put that on him, because everything is perfect with us. Sorry for the long post, I know I''m rambling...what do you think?