Smurfysmiles
Ideal_Rock
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So for the ceremony the church gives us a coordinator to help us figure things out and so on. Well I had been trying to figure out the time of the rehearsal at our church so I could let fi''s mom know when to schedule the dinner for. I emailed the coordinator and she acted like I was asking all of these out of line things and says "We already discussed this and we decided on 6:00 at ****. To which I reply, "no we have actually not discussed that at all but thank you for letting me know." So I''m sitting here going where in the world is ****, I have no idea where that is at. So I email a friend of mine who works at the church as a youth minister. Well we have 2 campuses, north and south in town (about a 25-30 minute drive from one to the other), for our church and I knew this. Well friend says "Ohhh ****, that''s at the south campus...but isn''t your wedding at the north campus? Why would she schedule it there?" To which I reply "Wow I have no idea."
SO Long story short:
We''re getting married at one church and having our rehearsal dinner at another church. Raise your hand if you can see why this might be a problem! People could potentially show up at the wrong church the day of if they do not understand this. Now I''m not trying to say our bridal party isn''t smart, it''s just I know things can get lost in translation and I just don''t get why we can''t have it at the place of the ceremony to begin with!
Ugh, this may have been more of a vent than anything but ugh. Also she said "off the top of my head the rehearsal is at 6pm" I asked her to email back when she knew for sure because I didn''t want to give the wrong time to the caterer for the rehearsal dinner. Yeah..this was 5 days ago. Haven''t heard a thing since. Wonderful.
SO Long story short:
We''re getting married at one church and having our rehearsal dinner at another church. Raise your hand if you can see why this might be a problem! People could potentially show up at the wrong church the day of if they do not understand this. Now I''m not trying to say our bridal party isn''t smart, it''s just I know things can get lost in translation and I just don''t get why we can''t have it at the place of the ceremony to begin with!
Ugh, this may have been more of a vent than anything but ugh. Also she said "off the top of my head the rehearsal is at 6pm" I asked her to email back when she knew for sure because I didn''t want to give the wrong time to the caterer for the rehearsal dinner. Yeah..this was 5 days ago. Haven''t heard a thing since. Wonderful.