I mentioned in a different post how I found out from my BF that he was thinking of proposing to me when we were on a trip a week and a half ago, but when we got to the spot it wasn''t right (and I agree: too many flies, people and heat).
So a little while after hearing this (I was all emotional before we had talked about the above and felt weird/bad after I found out) I thought, "I should e-mail my girlfriends and tell them I almost got engaged!" Then I thought about it more and realized I could have done the same last Christmas after he told me that he thought about asking me at X time. Though this year, I think he was thinking about actually doing it, rather than the thought popped into his head at the time.
Do you tell your girlfriends much about LIW/engagement stuff? I know I came here becasue I didn''t feel like I could talk to other people, though that''s all in my head, it''s not like my friends have ever said anything to me to suggest they wouldn''t want to hear about it.
Have you ever told people about being "almost engaged"? Did it come back to bite you? I suppose I''m a little worried about that. If I tell them and nothing happens for a year will they bug me about it or will I look like an idiot for thinking he''d propose.
So a little while after hearing this (I was all emotional before we had talked about the above and felt weird/bad after I found out) I thought, "I should e-mail my girlfriends and tell them I almost got engaged!" Then I thought about it more and realized I could have done the same last Christmas after he told me that he thought about asking me at X time. Though this year, I think he was thinking about actually doing it, rather than the thought popped into his head at the time.
Do you tell your girlfriends much about LIW/engagement stuff? I know I came here becasue I didn''t feel like I could talk to other people, though that''s all in my head, it''s not like my friends have ever said anything to me to suggest they wouldn''t want to hear about it.
Have you ever told people about being "almost engaged"? Did it come back to bite you? I suppose I''m a little worried about that. If I tell them and nothing happens for a year will they bug me about it or will I look like an idiot for thinking he''d propose.