Samantha Red
Shiny_Rock
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- Jan 9, 2007
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Hi Everyone
I am after some advice if at all possible, because I have a bit of an internal conflict going on and I could do with a clear perspective.
My wonderful DH is looking for a new job. He is ten years younger than I am and only in his early 30''s so very much into progressing his career. He had a second interview yesterday for a job that would be amazing for him and us in many ways; however as with many things in life there is a compromise. It would involve a lot of time away from home, in the sense that he would be away from Monday - Thursday most weeks, and then working from home on Fridays. He has always travelled with work since we have been together, but it is more sporadic and overall he his at home for the majority of the time, this would obviously be a significant change to our lives. The travel would predominantly be in the UK so he could always get home if necessary, but I am just a little apprehensive as to how we will cope with it. We don''t have children, only furry ones and I currently only work four mornings per week, and have an excellent support system of friends around me.
Does anyone have a similar lifestyle? I would be really interested to find out what the best methods of coping are. I know it is the right move for lots of reasons and want to ensure I am supportive as possible.
TIA
I am after some advice if at all possible, because I have a bit of an internal conflict going on and I could do with a clear perspective.
My wonderful DH is looking for a new job. He is ten years younger than I am and only in his early 30''s so very much into progressing his career. He had a second interview yesterday for a job that would be amazing for him and us in many ways; however as with many things in life there is a compromise. It would involve a lot of time away from home, in the sense that he would be away from Monday - Thursday most weeks, and then working from home on Fridays. He has always travelled with work since we have been together, but it is more sporadic and overall he his at home for the majority of the time, this would obviously be a significant change to our lives. The travel would predominantly be in the UK so he could always get home if necessary, but I am just a little apprehensive as to how we will cope with it. We don''t have children, only furry ones and I currently only work four mornings per week, and have an excellent support system of friends around me.
Does anyone have a similar lifestyle? I would be really interested to find out what the best methods of coping are. I know it is the right move for lots of reasons and want to ensure I am supportive as possible.
TIA