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Our wedding is going to be around an hour drive away from where we live (Toronto). Almost 50% of our guests our from Toronto, and the rest 50% are coming from other provinces. We will be hosting a brunch the day following our wedding for family and out-of-town guests and wont be including our guests coming from Toronto (mostly university and work friends). I was wondering if we should include a special brunch invitation with our formal invitations, or if we should invite via word-of-mouth.
I feel a tad guilty for sending formal invitations to half our guests and not to others, so I was thinking of making it slightly less formal by having it spread word-of-mouth. BUT we do need estimates a week before the brunch so I would need to know how many will be joining us and doing this over the phone might get tedious. So, is it bad etiquette to include only some of your guests for a certain wedding event with a formal invitation?
I feel a tad guilty for sending formal invitations to half our guests and not to others, so I was thinking of making it slightly less formal by having it spread word-of-mouth. BUT we do need estimates a week before the brunch so I would need to know how many will be joining us and doing this over the phone might get tedious. So, is it bad etiquette to include only some of your guests for a certain wedding event with a formal invitation?