bem3231
Brilliant_Rock
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Hi everyone -
This is my first post in this thread. I''ve just started visiting here because my new hubby and I are in the ''planning when to start trying to conceive'' phase...
Some brief history:
- We just got married July 26th. I''ll be 36 next month, he''ll be 41 next month. This will be the first try at conception for both of us.
- My mom had two sons from her first marriage when she was very young. I am the only child from her second marriage. She was 42 when she had me, however she had had a miscarriage and a still birth prior to having me.
- Her baby that was still born had spina bifida.
I asked my doctor several months ago about increased folic acid pre-conception for women with a family history of spinal canal defects. He did some research and prescribed 5 mg of folic acid per day, but said that I could start that whenever we start officially ''trying''. I''ve recently done some more research online, and what seems to be recommended is to start this higher dosing of folic acid prior to trying to conceive. I''ve read anything from one to three months (minimum) pre-conception.
Does anyone have any additional information on this? Hubby and I are conscious of the fact that we''re not getting any younger, and initially we were going to start trying right away. However, since having read this about the folic acid (and for a few other reasons that I won''t launch into - mostly due to me wanting more time to adjust to being married and to try to make a plan to spend more time together in the same city first) I''d ideally like to wait 3 - 5 months before trying to conceive. I''m stuck on wondering if the benefits of the extra months of higher folic acid dosing outweigh the detriments of waiting those extra months, given our respective ages?
Any information or advice that anyone might be able to provide would be much appreciated.
Thanks!
This is my first post in this thread. I''ve just started visiting here because my new hubby and I are in the ''planning when to start trying to conceive'' phase...
Some brief history:
- We just got married July 26th. I''ll be 36 next month, he''ll be 41 next month. This will be the first try at conception for both of us.
- My mom had two sons from her first marriage when she was very young. I am the only child from her second marriage. She was 42 when she had me, however she had had a miscarriage and a still birth prior to having me.
- Her baby that was still born had spina bifida.
I asked my doctor several months ago about increased folic acid pre-conception for women with a family history of spinal canal defects. He did some research and prescribed 5 mg of folic acid per day, but said that I could start that whenever we start officially ''trying''. I''ve recently done some more research online, and what seems to be recommended is to start this higher dosing of folic acid prior to trying to conceive. I''ve read anything from one to three months (minimum) pre-conception.
Does anyone have any additional information on this? Hubby and I are conscious of the fact that we''re not getting any younger, and initially we were going to start trying right away. However, since having read this about the folic acid (and for a few other reasons that I won''t launch into - mostly due to me wanting more time to adjust to being married and to try to make a plan to spend more time together in the same city first) I''d ideally like to wait 3 - 5 months before trying to conceive. I''m stuck on wondering if the benefits of the extra months of higher folic acid dosing outweigh the detriments of waiting those extra months, given our respective ages?
Any information or advice that anyone might be able to provide would be much appreciated.
Thanks!