Mashira
Brilliant_Rock
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So FF and I are looking for a church for the ceremony. We've decided to start early because where we live there is a REAL shortage of small chapels. (We live in Texas and most churches are mega-churches). I am a religious person and so is FF. We picked a date that has ended up being a Sunday. I was fine with this, until we started looking for a church. Most churches will not allow weddings on Sundays because of services. Now we are faced with either:
a .changing the date (and we've already booked the caterer for the Sunday)
b. not doing the ceremony in a church
I would not be completely heartbroken if it were not in a church, but I've always imagined it that way from the time I was a little girl. I think I could very much appreciate a nice outdoor wedding, but there is a lack of facilities to do that here, and with the Texas heat, it could very well kill everyone! There is another option. The place we are looking at for the reception also does weddings. I'm not in love with the space but they have an AMAZING spiral staircase I would use as my 'aisle'. The problem is.... it's hard for me to get excited about the thought of that. I feel like my dream dress belongs in a church, and I would probably not get the dress I wanted because it wouldn't suit the ceremony. *sigh* I don't know. I just don't know... opinions?
a .changing the date (and we've already booked the caterer for the Sunday)
b. not doing the ceremony in a church
I would not be completely heartbroken if it were not in a church, but I've always imagined it that way from the time I was a little girl. I think I could very much appreciate a nice outdoor wedding, but there is a lack of facilities to do that here, and with the Texas heat, it could very well kill everyone! There is another option. The place we are looking at for the reception also does weddings. I'm not in love with the space but they have an AMAZING spiral staircase I would use as my 'aisle'. The problem is.... it's hard for me to get excited about the thought of that. I feel like my dream dress belongs in a church, and I would probably not get the dress I wanted because it wouldn't suit the ceremony. *sigh* I don't know. I just don't know... opinions?