That's a very hard question. I have a diamond about the same size and I strongly considered a three stone, but I would have used smaller side diamonds than that since I think large sides make the center look smaller. I liked cflutist's ring that has a 8.4mm center and 5.2 mm (each) sides.
Ultimately I decided to change to a halo! But I think if I had a stone that could be upgraded, I would be very tempted to go for the 2.7 which will be a significant size increase. I like both ideas, though.
Ok so I would usually say 3 stone but man if both of those options look great in you! I can’t believe I’m saying this but I actually love the solitaire on you a little better. With your small finger size you’re still getting great finger coverage and it’s a classic choice that will never go out of style.
I would go for the 3-stone but I personally like the look of ice across the whole finger, with a proportionally small wedding band like what you have pictured. Or, upgrade to the bigger one now and make it a 3-stone later!
That would be an incredibly difficult decision. They both look great, but they are both such different looks. I honestly don't know what I'd do. Sorry I'm not any help!
Honestly, I am a solitaire girl myself. However, that's me. You do what you want to do!!! I'd experiment with a costume jewelry 3-stone ring to see if you like that look.
I’m not much help either. A 2.60 to 2.80ct is in my wish list in a traditional Tiffany setting but I also love the idea of a 3 stone as @diamondseeker2006 mentioned with smaller side stones so the centre is standout. Can’t wait to see what you choose.
@384123 It depends what you’re trying to accomplish. If you want a bigger stone, then go for the 2.7. If you’re going after finger coverage then the 3 stone. Both are gorgeous. Another idea is to get the 2.7 for now and make it into a 3 stone at another milestone anniversary.
What an incredible position to be in! So happy for you, as both options are amazing. Not sure what your preferences are but, I've found DSS is easier to fight off with a 3 stone ring vs. a solitaire. Either way you can't go wrong. Can't wait to see final pictures.