4 months to go, WHAT am I forgetting to do HELP

[Patchee]

Hey there ladies ... and gentlemen! Some remember me here from a long time ago when I was ready to throw in the LIW towel ...well, I hung on and now I will be married in 4 months! This is what I have done so far, what else do I have to do? Feeling a bit overwhelmed lately.

Venue (at residence)
Tents/Chairs/Tables

DJ
Caterer
Cake
Dress
Rings (his and mine)

Centerpeices
Invitations
decorations for tent/tables cloths/silverware/dishes
all the little decorations
All personalized things ... i.e. flutes, napkins etc.

What am I missing? Really the only thing I need is some form of outdoor lighting and LOTS of silver tulle!
I feel like something big is missing here

OH I know about marrige license stuff and I only need my dress altered at the bottom, how long does this generally take? I have yet to get that done! Will it cost alot at David''s bridle?? Thank you!

 

[cammy85]

Are you getting the rings engraved?
Photographer?
Florist - if you''re having bouquets and dont want to worry about DIY
Veil?

I''ll keep thinking. I''ve got 4 days and still feel like I''m missing stuff! :-p

 

[teapot]

In addition to what Cammy mentioned,

Table numbers and/or escort cards and/or name place cards
Favors
First Dance song
accessories

bathroom rental and/or plumbing checked

Also, my dress was altered in less then two weeks. I had 3 fittings.

You are very much on top of things great going.

 

[StarbuttsKoffee]

Ring pillow? Cake Topper? Car rental? Seating Chart?

 

[galvana]

I am 4 months out too
lets see, forgive me if i repeat what others said

photographer
videographer
table numbers
favors
flowers, corsages for mom, grandmom''s, etc
undergarmets
your shoes
veil
alterations appt (mine just quoted $275)
placecards
ceremony music
card box
garter
guest book and pen
programs
hmmm - there is SO MUCH, i''ll think of more! lol

 

[Structenggirl]

Officiant?

 

[Patchee]

CONGRATS Cammy, you must be getting married tomorrow????

Besides what I have done in the first post -
Yes, His ring is engraved, - already done... My ring is all diamond vintage band, I did not want it engraved.

Have the photographer too

His mom is actually making the flowers out of her luscious garden! Happy about that! Flowers are expensive (like we all know)

We are using our down stairs bathroom which is not on a well so we should be ok

Got cake topper, ring pillow, my favors are stainless steel cooking timers set as champange buckets with fake ice and a bottle of champange sticking out of it - very cute!

Got the preist too.

I hope my dress does not cost $275 - I will flip out! Feeling stressed as it is! Thank you girls I really feel like I am totally on track! WoW and again, Cammy - congrats!