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10th Anniversary gift: 2 Single Stone bands. Am I crazy?

DominaMusica

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Ladies...your thoughts. Am I mad?
If you've read my other one or two posts, you know my story of bad jewelers and rings that don't fit, and that I've been looking to replace a Whitney Boin band and a largish solitaire with something more antique and delicate and sparkly that also doesn't get in my way day-to-day. All my searches for the last two years online always end up at Single Stone where I veritably weep for the beauty of their sparkling creations. I've bought a few small rings on eBay and from I. D. Jewelry to tide me over but always felt they were placeholders instead of something that I wanted as a forever piece.
This is our 10th anniversary (yay!) and we also had a couple of major events (new baby in January, and I finished a pretty major graduate degree in May), so finally I thought, why not? So I approached my husband and told him what I really thought I wanted after years of searching, and he turned pale at the price, but said "go for it, love." :appl:

So after many, many lovely photo-filled kind and patient emails with Heather at Single Stone, the package landed today with the two rings I chose for (in my eyes) their uniqueness and beauty. They are not "matchy" but I find that appealing, and they are sparkly without being too enormous for my working-musician hands. The OECs in the larger band are throwing off the little rainbows that my heart has been longing for since I was a tiny child and first given a prism. The little baguettes are a totally unique look to me (and I picked it partially because my husband commented on it during my search that he liked the look of it), and the milgrain really does look like it would take tiny fairies to make it that delicate! I really like the stacking look, but my fingers are definitely not long enough for more than two stacking bands (unfortunately!).
The only thing that might get added to this stack someday would be a Single Stone recut to OEC and resetting of the solitaire in a few years (I hope!).

I have a couple of days to decide if they are right for me or not though every time I look down at my hand my breath catches. :love: This is a major, major, expense for our little household. Please let me know what you think!

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Those are gorgeous and I love them together. Having seen the SS bands in person, I'd agree that they are in a different stratosphere from many of the more cost effective bands. The quality and heft are amazing.
 
Nope not crazy at all. I covet that baguette band something fierce. Congrats on your anniversary and enjoy!
 
I love them too. But for some reason I just *long* to see the bag band BELOW the OEC band! Have you tried it that way? Was just talking to my DH the other night about a 10th anniversary band (four years from now HA!!!!!) -- and I wasn't sure about it because I don't wear RHRs and don't want to give up my current ER & wedding band, so would HAVE to *add* a stacker. Was beginning to lean against that plan until I saw your gorgeous band! Maybe I'll just have to diet down to skinny, stacker-friendly fingers by then.

CONGRATS!!! :appl:
 
decodelighted|1343411804|3241443 said:
I love them too. But for some reason I just *long* to see the bag band BELOW the OEC band! Have you tried it that way? Was just talking to my DH the other night about a 10th anniversary band (four years from now HA!!!!!) -- and I wasn't sure about it because I don't wear RHRs and don't want to give up my current ER & wedding band, so would HAVE to *add* a stacker. Was beginning to lean against that plan until I saw your gorgeous band! Maybe I'll just have to diet down to skinny, stacker-friendly fingers by then.

CONGRATS!!! :appl:

There we go with brain-melding again! I was thinking exactly the same thing about the baguette band going under the round band! Love them! :love:
 
Not crazy, just crazy lucky to have a hubby who grins and bears it!! I have one of those too, so I know how lucky and grateful you feel! Enjoy your new bands and Happy Anniversary!
 
Oh my God, that baguette band takes my breath away! So beautiful together too.
 
Congrats! They are beautiful!
 
so very beautiful! I love bands like that. and they look stunning together
 
Thank you!! :love:
Only fellow PSrs can imagine how much time I have spent staring at my ring finger today (and tomorrow, and the day after that, and the...). I feel very lucky, but also very pressured to make sure that I don't screw up this lovely and expensive decision. :sick:

TravelingGal, you are so right about the quality. And that's a huge part of what I was craving in a forever ring. Gypsy, I think this band would look phenomenal with your stacking rings and your emeralds. :) Decodelighted, I'm with you - I just don't seem to wear right hand rings, so everything I want to love has to fit on my left hand ring finger. You must add a stacker. :appl:
Diamondseeker2006 and Deco, I tried the bands the other way, but they feel more comfortable with the OEC band first, because it's wider and the base of my finger is narrower, so there is more room for it there and it doesn't feel too tight. I agree with the look of it the other way, though, and I keep trying them both ways. Yennyfire, your Single Stone journey is a thread I've read many times. And your ring is so beautiful, and your husband sounds like a peach! Thank you, MakeMePretty, PeasyPeas and Abby12! I thought the baguettes were just so unique.

So I stare and stare at my finger. The OEC band...well, all I can say is these are my first real live OECs, and I think that I have never known true diamond love until now. I've never seen anything like them, and these aren't even big ones. The little rainbows are so gorgeous, and the stones have a depth that RBs don't even come close to! I can sense that a recut of my solitaire is coming (poor husband!). So I know that the OEC band is a must.
The baguettes I adore, but they refract light (of course, though I do not understand the math of it the way a lot of you incredible PSrs do!) in a totally different way, and without the rainbows. But it's such an art-deco look, and they are so unique. I love it, though I'm still thinking. BUT, I can't think of another Single Stone band that I've seen that would be better??????
 
Are you looking to wear these 2 rings evey day instead of your solitaire and wedding ring but still keep your solitaire and wedding band to wear sometimes?? Or are you saying you want to sell or trade your solitaire and wedding band in order to buy these to SS rings?? If it is the first one I would say yes do it! If it is the second I wouldn't do it. I have that SS oec band and their french cut baguette band. i wear them with my engagement ring except on vacation etc when i leave my ering for safe keeping. No doubt the SS bands are delicate and lovely but I would NEVER replace my solitaire with them. They dont have very much presence. The baguette bands are a very quiet and subtle sparkle and they show dirt like crazy and then just look reallyflat. Dont get me wrong they are beautiful and well made for sure but I think the hard thing about them is that they are VERY pricey and they dont have much bling presence for the price. If you are ok with that then go for it! Just wanted to share my experience.
 
They are gorgeous! I absolutely adore the OEC eternity. :love: I am hoping to one day purchase one of their OEC eternities. If you don't mind me asking, do you know what size are the OECs? It looks substantial enough to wear alone and yet delicate enough to stack with...aka perfect size!
 
Both are so gorgeous in their own ways.
 
Oh, they've both absolutely lovely! :love:
 
LovingWarmDiamonds, you summed it up perfectly about the priciness vs. the sparkle. My original Whitney Boin band is already on its way to Pearlmans, and I'm not sorry to see it go. It's just not the ring for me, so a partial answer is YES, that is being replaced by two SS bands, whether I keep this baguette one or ask them if I can return it in exchange for a different one.
In a perfect world, I would sell the solitaire (I have it listed on DB just in case someone out there loves it enough) in order to purchase an antique solitaire. That's what I would REALLY like to do, but what I imagine I may end up doing it sending it to SS after our bank account recovers from the SS bands :? for a recut to be like an OEC and then have it put in a very low, very slender filigree milgrain bezel.

My big decision this time was whether to purchase a second eternity band vs. doing that recut and reset. I did end up spending more on the baguette band than I had planned. They are out of stock on the French cut eternity band, but that's another large jump in price!

Thank you, EllieMay and Lknvrb4! Armywife13, I do not mind sharing at all and I'm grateful to the thousands of PSrs who have shared their stats for me to learn from (and drool over). The OEC band is the 1.02 carat weight. It's GORGEOUS, and I agree, it's delicate but is wide enough to wear alone. Mine is a size six, and my fingers are about average in terms of length. The baguette band is .60.

And I do love the baguettes for the vintage look, but the two are quite different, that's for sure...
 
I love the baguette band, but I believe I would choose the french cut band over the baguette band, so I might get the round one now and wait on the french cut band. Or go ahead and get your diamond recut now instead.
 
DS2006, I love it too. They have this silvery shine that, in the weirdest way, reminds me of some incredible dress-up jewelry from when I was little. EXCEPT these real! Dress-up for my grown-up self. :tongue:

I know that I want two eternity bands no matter what, but that my fingers are not long enough nor shaped correctly to wear more than that (unfortunately!). The OEC band is just breathtaking. So this morning I'm finding myself wondering if the OEC band that's bumped up a tish in carat weight is worth the additional $$$ that it would take. I'm thinking that it is NOT, for me, ultimately necessary, but the stones are just like little balls of fire.

Before I write to SS and ask them directly, does anyone know if they offer the popular "trade in, trade up" policy so many jewelers employ, where you can put your original piece from them towards a piece of greater value in the future? Diamonds do shrink over time, I've heard. :lol:
 
Update for Deco and DiamondSeeker - you were TOTALLY right about wearing the baguette band first and then the OEC bad. MUCH BETTER, just switched today.
Now all of a sudden I want a third one. Yikes! :loopy:
 
Happy 10th AND congrats on the baby AND the degree!

They look great, though I don't LOVE the round stone band but I am DYING for the one with the bags. WOW. That with an old style "solitaire" would be so divine.
 
Thank you, Ame!! I always knew I wanted the OEC band, but the little baguettes surprise me every day with their prettiness. They are just not like anything I've ever had the chance to wear.
I want an antique solitaire so badly. I am thinking of starting a thread to ask people to send me inspiration pictures for engraved, bezel-set solitaires. I've already been talking with Single Stone about the recut for the diamond if possible, but I haven't found quite the perfect setting yet. But I think it would be really pretty with these two bands. Anyhow, thank you!! :)
 
Ahhh . . the baguette band. It is to die for. I'm super jealous of your new set. Just stunning. I have no words.
 
I think they're amazing. I adore the sleek sophistication of the step cuts and can only imagine how beautiful the old rounds cuts are in person.

Personally I find the purchases I regret are when I get "a case of the cheaps" and end up with something that's not high quality. Obviously these are the best of the best so no problem there!

Since you are so (rightfully) smitten with the round band, would you consider returning the other band and upgrading to round band wih larger stones? Then get the other one for your 15th anniversary?
 
Love these rings! Wear them in health and happiness! Just gorgeous. :love: I love seeing real life pics. The website pics don't give much perspective.
 
Thank you guys! I have totally fallen in love with the two bands, and now I can't imagine not wearing either of them. Ha! :love: :love: :love:

But, I tried wearing my solitaire (even though it's still in the six-prong setting I dislike so much), and I thought it totally overshadowed both bands. I couldn't see the little OECS at all under its shadow. So now I'm wondering if I should turn my solitaire into a stand-alone ring for my other hand. I wish I could find an affordable antique-style ring to try wearing with them to see if I like it before I spend $$$ on the recut/reset. But RoseBloom, you are EXACTLY right - a case of the cheapies, and I always regret it. Always.

I feel really lucky to have these two little bands. They feel very unique to me. If only my finger was long enough for one more - then I could wear one band for each baby! (My husband SO rolled his eyes when I suggested it, but with a smile). Thanks for making me feel so good about these.
 
DominaMusica|1344283445|3246961 said:
Update for Deco and DiamondSeeker - you were TOTALLY right about wearing the baguette band first and then the OEC bad. MUCH BETTER, just switched today.
Now all of a sudden I want a third one. Yikes! :loopy:

Ahh! I didn't see when you posted this! I think we need a new picture! It actually would be gorgeous with a small band on either side of the larger one, too!
 
Ha! All right, here are two little pictures from this morning. The iPhone camera really does not seem to be able to capture the colorful little rainbows that both bands throw off, unfortunately. That's what I'm most in love with.
The RB is sparkly, but it never gives me any flashes of color, which I just crave. And I also desperately crave a filigree bezel setting for the solitaire, if it wouldn't be too much for one hand.
But I love these little things so.

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Gorgeous bands!!! :love:

They look amazing together!

Happy 10th Anniversary!

Cachette :))
 
those bands are just amazing! I actually like how they look with your solitaire but can see how it might look different in person! Happy 10th anniversary!!
 
All three look beautiful together!!! I love both your new anniversary bands - gorgeous choices you made with both styles! They look perfect with your lovely diamond - and your long fingers. I am learning to hate my stubs - everyone else on PS has these long elegant fingers....

Happy 10th anniversary! :appl:
 
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