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Brilliant_Rock
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After being engaged since last June and not doing even a bit of planning, we're decided it's probably time to start figuring things out! I am not a planner by nature, and I can use all the help I can get. I actually hesitated on posting this, because my thoughts are kind of jumbled, but I'll give it a try.
First of all, we want to do a small destination wedding. I'm talking 10-15 people tops. Just close family and friends. We've considered about every possible location, and I think I'm starting to drive FI nuts with my new ideas every day. We've talked about Vegas (among other locales) but I really think I want to do a small beach wedding - FI isn't picky about location as long as his parents and a few close friends are there. He just wants me to make up my indecisive mind, I think.
We had originally discussed getting married in June of of this year. But due to our procrastination, we're re-considering and tending more toward early September now. We're moving from the midwest to PA in August, so that's not a good month. However, we're very flexible on day of the week, time of day, etc.
I've spent a good part of the day surfing the net looking at various ideas and I was wondering if BWW could help out with some ideas for what we want to do. We're paying for the wedding ourselves and are very budget-conscious. I'm really thinking that Florida may be a great option for us, as there are many beautiful beaches and our guests would not have to worry about traveling internationally. My family has took several trips to St. Augustine when I was younger, and we really loved it. FI and I went to the Clearwater/St. Pete area a couple years ago, so west FL has a bit of personal draw to us as well.
I know that time of year is during hurricane season, right? I'm wondering how big of an issue that could be.
Also...I'm not sure we want to do an actual reception. Maybe just a private room for dinner for our small party? No dance floor or anything needed. It seems like you add the word "wedding" to anything, and it's an immediate increase in cost. Do you think we actually need to purchase a reception package sort of thing? Or could we rent a room and just pay for everyone's dinners? I'm a little confused on how it works.
Since I still feel pretty lost and clueless in all this, I guess I'm mostly asking for guidance. Am I headed in the right direction? What should I do next? Do you have a great idea on a location? Any suggestions and tips are appreciated.
First of all, we want to do a small destination wedding. I'm talking 10-15 people tops. Just close family and friends. We've considered about every possible location, and I think I'm starting to drive FI nuts with my new ideas every day. We've talked about Vegas (among other locales) but I really think I want to do a small beach wedding - FI isn't picky about location as long as his parents and a few close friends are there. He just wants me to make up my indecisive mind, I think.
We had originally discussed getting married in June of of this year. But due to our procrastination, we're re-considering and tending more toward early September now. We're moving from the midwest to PA in August, so that's not a good month. However, we're very flexible on day of the week, time of day, etc.
I've spent a good part of the day surfing the net looking at various ideas and I was wondering if BWW could help out with some ideas for what we want to do. We're paying for the wedding ourselves and are very budget-conscious. I'm really thinking that Florida may be a great option for us, as there are many beautiful beaches and our guests would not have to worry about traveling internationally. My family has took several trips to St. Augustine when I was younger, and we really loved it. FI and I went to the Clearwater/St. Pete area a couple years ago, so west FL has a bit of personal draw to us as well.
I know that time of year is during hurricane season, right? I'm wondering how big of an issue that could be.
Also...I'm not sure we want to do an actual reception. Maybe just a private room for dinner for our small party? No dance floor or anything needed. It seems like you add the word "wedding" to anything, and it's an immediate increase in cost. Do you think we actually need to purchase a reception package sort of thing? Or could we rent a room and just pay for everyone's dinners? I'm a little confused on how it works.
Since I still feel pretty lost and clueless in all this, I guess I'm mostly asking for guidance. Am I headed in the right direction? What should I do next? Do you have a great idea on a location? Any suggestions and tips are appreciated.