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Would you want your husband or wife to read everything you have written on Pricescope?

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Calliecake

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This question came to mind this week after hearing the news about Dancing Fire. There are only a couple posts I wouldn’t want my husband to read, the rest wouldn’t bother me in the least, I was very detailed about something I went thru and even though he knows all about it, I’m afraid it would hurt him to read how I felt at the time.

Would it bother you if your husband or wife read your posts?
 
Yes.
To my SO I'm 100% transparent.

He knows all my passwords to everything.
This has not been the case with previous SOs.
It's wonderful to have found someone I fully love and trust.
 
she can read em all.
 
@Karl_K, Your love for your wife comes thru very brightly in a few of your posts. There are a few that I’m sure would warm her heart.
 
My husband knows I belong here and I've told him my user name; that said, he really has no interest in digital communities and in fact is rather techno-challenged so it would be extremely unlikely he would ever visit here. Still, if he did, I'd be okay with him reading everything I've written here. He does enjoy my PS stories that I share with him once in a while, and we share an interest in rocks and gems, and that works for us.

I realize DF's wife apparently gave a PSer permission to link her husband's obit notice with his real name and city/state -- but personally I would not want that done for me -- and my husband knows not to do so on my behalf; he knows I prize my privacy and he would respect that even after my death.
 
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It would be 100% fine for my husband to read anything I’ve written here. Or anywhere.

I have zero secrets from him.
I trust him completely.
He sees me for exactly who I am as I see him and we love each other with eyes wide open.

This is what works for us.
 
Sure- he is not interested at all but I genuinely wouldn’t mind if he were.
 
Well, sure.
He wouldn't believe it, not enough swearing.:lol:
 
Yes, he wouldn’t care and I haven’t posted anything that he doesn’t know already.
 
Not at all. I'm pretty boring on here!

Actually it wouldn't bother me if he read any of my posts on all the forums. I don't think there is anything exciting to discover plus I'm always saying he's perfect so I'm sure he'll enjoy that!!!
 
He would have no interest but he has access to all my Web sites.
 
I doubt mine would read it all but there is nothing here that I wouldn’t want him to see. He was in on all the jewelry purchases and the rest is just me being me - no surprise to him after 44 years - lol!
 
My hubby hears various things going on here. We talk about it. I tell him about you all. I would be fine with him reading anything I have written
 
My husband has the password to my phone. He'd probably be bored to tears, but it's all good.
 
No issues if my SO reads any of my posts in terms of the content I’ve written, but I think he’d be upset about me sharing personal info on the internet (he’s very private as a person). That’s why I don’t post much about my own stuff.
 
No problem. He actually might find it interesting.
 
My husband, fine. Close family, fine.

I am careful about what I share so there's nothing incriminating!

And yet, truly... would I want random neighbours / work colleagues / nosy extended family searching my history and reading all the little pieces of information, small exasperations, fussing and obsessing over blingy things? No, probably not. It would feel like an invasion of privacy, like being outed. That's why I was a bit surprised to see a few posters mentioning DF's username and forum name on his public obituary. Personally I wouldn't want that.
 
Spouse knows but has no real interest in the subject matter. Sadly, she would learn nothing new about my character from my posts :mrgreen2:.

Like others here, we have no secrets. AFAIK. I mean there are things that I wouldn't brag about -- like some of the IG "content creators" I follow ;)2 -- but I have no shadow accounts, and no "Sinsta" like my kids.

I agree with @MillieLou above -- not sure I would want to be "doxxed" on here after my death. With any luck, I'll have a while to think about it...
 
I don't have anything to hide from my family.. so no. :)
 
Yes, I don't hide anything.
 
I don't mind as I do my best to behave online. :saint:
 
I wouldn’t have any problem with him reading anything, he might not appreciate some things I’ve written about his sister. Nothing I haven’t shared with him though, he knows the relationship is complicated.


We don’t keep secrets from each other but I do write in a journal from time to time and he knows about it but I’ve asked him not to read it. There is nothing about him in there anyways, it’s mainly just an avenue for me to work through things in my head, it’s also largely about living through a pandemic. Nothing exciting.
 
Lol my husband would also be bored to tears. I have no real interest in behaving myself online :lol-2: , so it's a bit sad that I haven't generated any contentious content he would consider interesting or memorable. I should probably work on it :lol:
 
I generally try not to write anything (in public or private) that I wouldn't like read aloud at a deposition. So yes, he can read it all. I occasionally vent to 1 or 2 close friends about challenges in our relationship, but even then I try to temper it. My husband is thoroughly devoted to me and our family. We are lucky to have such a loyal, loving individual. Is he perfect? No, but neither am I. He probably comes closer to perfection than I do.
 
I wouldn't mind my husband reading anything I wrote…I do complain about him here sometimes…but I complain to him in person so there’s no surprises. :lol: After I said I do everything myself he’s been stepping up cleaning bathrooms, dishes, etc…in addition to vacuuming..For a split second I thought maybe he read something I posted. He’s a dinosaur with stuff like this so that left my mind instantly. He would have no idea how to get here! He knows my user name. I told him if he did a search PS may pop up…I wouldn’t want my children..including my DIL to know about PS. They don’t need to know everything I do.
 
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