janinegirly
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I'm trying to think long term, and it's hard for me to picture balancing it all once pre-school/grade school starts.
It seems like for ages 1 & 2 it's either stay at home full time or daycare/nanny or a mix of the two. Then at age 2.5, kiddies start going to pre-school, which is about 2 hrs--which works out for SAHM's, but working moms most likely keep theirs in daycare. Then at around age 4-5, it's time for real school which typically is 5 days a week until 3pm? At that point working moms then opt for that (no more daycare) and have some kind of extended activity that the school offers from 3-6pm--is that how it generally works? It just seems like a long day for kindergarteners to start going to school and then stick around for 3 more hours.
I imagine if there's another little one at the same time it's even harder to juggle...b/c the daycare/nanny options become 2x more expensive and if one is in school, the other would still require the full time care.
Just curious how it works IRL for other working mamas. I'd like to stop working for a year or two at some point so trying to identify when would be best time for that.
It seems like for ages 1 & 2 it's either stay at home full time or daycare/nanny or a mix of the two. Then at age 2.5, kiddies start going to pre-school, which is about 2 hrs--which works out for SAHM's, but working moms most likely keep theirs in daycare. Then at around age 4-5, it's time for real school which typically is 5 days a week until 3pm? At that point working moms then opt for that (no more daycare) and have some kind of extended activity that the school offers from 3-6pm--is that how it generally works? It just seems like a long day for kindergarteners to start going to school and then stick around for 3 more hours.
I imagine if there's another little one at the same time it's even harder to juggle...b/c the daycare/nanny options become 2x more expensive and if one is in school, the other would still require the full time care.
Just curious how it works IRL for other working mamas. I'd like to stop working for a year or two at some point so trying to identify when would be best time for that.