LitigatorChick
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No? We don''t want funky farmer''s tan when we are at the beach. Haha...In reality you probably wouldn''t see women gardening here period. There are landscapers for that, LOL!Date: 5/29/2008 6:33:33 PM
Author: JulieN
I thought Calgary was cold!
In the OC, where 50%+ of houses of pools (Google earth,) I would never expect to see a woman do her gardening in a bikini top.
However, I have gone to the grocery store in a bikini top/skirt. Sometimes you just have to run to the store really fast.
I guess it''s the opposite.
Start postin'' your pics then!Date: 5/29/2008 6:29:46 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
all these bikini talk but no pictures ?
Yeah, exactly.Date: 5/29/2008 6:51:24 PM
Author: Miranda
No? We don''t want funky farmer''s tan when we are at the beach. Haha...In reality you probably wouldn''t see women gardening here period. There are landscapers for that, LOL!
Date: 5/29/2008 6:53:46 PM
Author: Miranda
Start postin'' your pics then!Date: 5/29/2008 6:29:46 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
all these bikini talk but no pictures ?
Hey DF, you could use your red cumberbun as the bikini top!Date: 5/29/2008 7:29:42 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
Date: 5/29/2008 6:53:46 PM
Author: Miranda
Start postin'' your pics then!Date: 5/29/2008 6:29:46 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
all these bikini talk but no pictures ?don''t think anybody wants to see me in a bikini
Date: 5/30/2008 4:46:16 PM
Author: sevens one
Hey DF, you could use your red cumberbun as the bikini top!Date: 5/29/2008 7:29:42 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
Date: 5/29/2008 6:53:46 PM
Author: Miranda
Start postin'' your pics then!Date: 5/29/2008 6:29:46 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
all these bikini talk but no pictures ?don''t think anybody wants to see me in a bikini
NanDate: 5/30/2008 4:46:16 PM
Author: sevens one
Hey DF, you could use your red cumberbun as the bikini top!
I do this as well. I can actually tell ahead of time before they even speak whether they are going to approach you or say something to strike up a conversation. I am polite if they strike up conversation, and they usually get the message that clearly I am unavailable.Date: 5/29/2008 12:23:27 PM
Author: ephemery1
If I''m talking to a guy and sense he is being more flirty than friendly, I''ll usually make sure my wedding/e-ring are in plain sight and wave them around a bit. If he persists, I figure he''s kind of a jerk, and have no problem saying ''sorry, I''m not interested'' if the conversation results in some sort of invitation. If he''s a nice guy and just clueless, I''ll sometimes say ''I''m married actually'', to avoid making him feel totally rejected. So depends on the situation, I guess...
My friend and I were just talking the other day about how I get hit on 10 times more often when my hair looks nice... it is the funniest thing. When it''s pulled back in a ponytail, nothing. But when it''s long and straight and shiny, freshly blow-dryed, hanging halfway down my back, I''ll get multiple comments just on the way to work in the morning... and the impact is especially dramatic when I''m wearing black and my hair looks more blonde. Once when I was walking home from the hairdresser around rush-hour, a car actually plowed right into another car right there on the street beside me. Both guys got out of their cars and the one guy yelled, ''If you hadn''t been looking at that girl, you could have been looking where you were going!!'' I almost died of embarrassment on the spot.
ROFLMAO!!!!Date: 5/30/2008 4:51:07 PM
Author: Kaleigh
Date: 5/30/2008 4:46:16 PM
Author: sevens one
Hey DF, you could use your red cumberbun as the bikini top!Date: 5/29/2008 7:29:42 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
Date: 5/29/2008 6:53:46 PM
Author: Miranda
Start postin' your pics then!Date: 5/29/2008 6:29:46 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
all these bikini talk but no pictures ?don't think anybody wants to see me in a bikini
Date: 6/2/2008 4:11:47 PM
Author: LitigatorChick
Here''s the thing. I was driving down the road the other day, and there was a bunch of very attractive men, wearing board shorts and nothing else. They had the bodies to pull it off and look great. Did I hollar at them? No, I looked, admired, and moved on. They enjoyed their afternoon, getting some sun.
Why can''t a woman do the same thing??? Why can''t I wear a bikini and not get demeaned and made to feel uncomfortable?
Okay, rant done.
Date: 6/2/2008 11:29:55 PM
Author: Miranda
Lit Chick - MEN. ARE. VISUAL. Women are not . . . As much
Really, though, men are much more visual than women are hence the large market for *adult* materials. Perhaps I''m naive, but, I don''t think women frequent those types of sites quite as often.