What do you do that drives your SO crazy?

[Kelli]

Date: 4/27/2009 4:27:50 AM
Author: pinkstars

Date: 4/26/2009 4:56:38 PM
Author: Margot

Date: 4/24/2009 1:17:04 PM

Author: Kelli

I get pissy when people are eating with their mouths open or audibly chewing gum around me. He wants me to ingore it, but it''s Fing disgusting. Why can''t people have some decency and chew with their mouths closed so I don''t have to see and hear it?

OMG I am totally with you on that. My BF is the noisiest eater...his whole family eats that way...no manners at all. We took his mother out to eat and it was like she wouldn''t talk UNLESS food was in her mouth...it made me so sick I couldn''t eat another bite.


Also, I leave half empty soda cans all around the apartment.

Me too!! The worst for me is the movie theater, I cannot stand being near those people who can do nothing except only crunch and munch their popcorn with their mouth wide open.
BF''s dad eats quickly and smacks his lips a lot, oh it''s the hardest thing to concentrate on my food when he does that!
Also I hate people who lick their fingers, ugh it''s so icky!!!!

I get so relieved when other people feel the same way! It seriously will ruin my meal times for me. Yuck!

 

[Kelli]

I have another one ladies.

Unfortunately I had a fight about it last night. I don''t take criticsim well, and I take it WAAAAYYY too hard when fiancee says something snippy or sarcastic to me. I know I could let it go and save a LOT of fighting, but my feelings get momentarily hurt and then I get PI$$ED for hours.

He doesn''t like it when I''m way too sensitive.

 

[Lauren8211]

Well, now that I''m back on the pill, my sugar pill week I am a crazed lunatic that cries at the drop of a hat.

Poor guy. It seriously drives him crazy.

I also:

- Leave lights on when I leave a room
- Take up the whole bed when he goes to sleep after I do
- Can never make a decision about what to eat

 

[jcarlylew]

Date: 4/24/2009 5:25:34 PM
Author: iwannaprettyone

Date: 4/24/2009 11:52:19 AM

Author: Bia

FI doesn''t SHUT UP during a movies (especially if he/we really like it) so I tell him to ''shhhhh!'' He get''s so offended. Once he really got mad at me, saying it was disrespectful. Are you kidding me?!

OMG.... we could be watching the same movie for the first time. DH will constantly ask ''what''s going on?'' ''what''s going to happen?'' like I have seen it already... so instead of screaming I am usually a smarta$$ and say something like ''oh, darn left the crystal ball at home'' or ''well if I had seen it, you''d be the first to know''....


lol. Back to the original question: I put my feet on the dash, it makes him nuts. Oh and I can''t sleep if the kitchen is dirty, so crazy but it''s true. My mother is the same way.

i think our men grew up together. I LOATHE it when E starts talking during the movie or TV show. the best was last night, we both got home (same time) and i flipped on chuck, a show we''ve watched at the exact same time, and haven''t seen much, and he starts going "whats that thing, who''s that guy, whats going on?" grrrrr.

anyways, my habits that he hates

1) i walk away in arguments. i say i''m done, sorry, whateves, and then walk away.
2) i yell at him to replace the TP, but i never do. im just to short to reach the stuff!
3) i will use food after its sell by date. not long after, but seriously, its still good!
4) i shower with the radio on. at 7 in the morn. on a sunday
5) i can never make up my mind
6) i dont go into lengthy discussions about emotions, feelings, etc. i say what i mean and need to say.
7) i don''t have creative hobbies. just expensive ones

im sure the list goes on, but i have one just as long for him!

 

[elrohwen]

This qualifies as something I do that drives FI crazy and also something he does that drives me crazy. Whenever we go grocery shopping or something he typically drives. When we get back to the car, he'll open his door with his remote thingy, but almost never opens my door. So I end up standing around pulling on the door handle until he figures out how to open it. This isn't so bad when it's nice, but it really ticks me off when it's raining or cold! Now this might be annoying to me, but he gets even more annoyed *at* me because I make such a big deal out of it

. I told him I would stop making a big deal if he would just push the unlock button twice and unlock all the doors at the same time

ETA: I also grind my teeth at night. I do have a mouth guard thing and I know I should wear it every night, but it's uncomfortable so I often don't.

Also, for some reason it bothers him that I'm not very "with it" when woken up randomly in the middle of the night. He always says that the house could be burning down and I'd just sit up in bed and say "Whaa??" I don't know why this bothers him so much though

I can't help it that I'm not super alert at 2am without a little bit of time to wake up.

 

[tlh]

Sometimes I say No.

 

[parrot tulips]

I was in the shower once, rinsing the shampoo out of my hair, and when I opened my eyes, a spider dropped from his web right in front of my face, and I screamed. A bad, blood curdling scream. I''m not normally afraid of spiders, but it caught me totally off guard and startled me. I''ve screamed like that maybe twice since we''ve met (the other time was on the road, when we nearly got got into an accident), and it''s the only thing I''ve ever done that has ever bugged FI enough to say anything. He''s convinced that I scream like that on purpose when I get scared...

 

[princesss]

He doesn''t like when I get snippy because of driving conditions when he''s behind the wheel. But I''m sorry, if it''s night time in a bar-infested area and you don''t know where you''re going and you don''t listen to my directions when I''m the one with the GPS then I''m going to get a little snippy.

He also doesn''t like it when I fake apologize. Sometimes it amuses him ("I''m sorry I fell asleep when you were over at my house last night. I tried really hard not to, but it just felt so good,") but sometimes (like, I don''t know....the above paragraph) it drives him a little cuckoo.

Oh, and I''m a backseat driver.

 

[Kelli]

Date: 4/28/2009 9:57:58 AM
Author: elledizzy5
Well, now that I''m back on the pill, my sugar pill week I am a crazed lunatic that cries at the drop of a hat.

Poor guy. It seriously drives him crazy.

I also:

- Leave lights on when I leave a room
- Take up the whole bed when he goes to sleep after I do
- Can never make a decision about what to eat

This is that week for me too. I don''t know if that''s the reason, but I wish I could control it better.