bridezilla!?!?!?!
Rough_Rock
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I''m a regular poster on this site, but have created a new name to post about this issue I''m having...a few people know that I am on PS and could trace my comments back to them...as I know they lurk on this site. Names and dates have been changed to protect the innocent.
Okay...so here''s my damage...
My friend got married about a year ago. Big old wedding. I went dress shopping with the bride (my friend is the groom) just to be supportive and nice and listened endlessly as they discussed their upcoming nuptuals. He was having some issues with his family and she was generally a totally obssessed bride that talked of nothing but the wedding for months and months. She was all super crafty bride and really got into the spending money and having a dress specially made, blah blah blah. Not really my scene...but I was there and I tried to be positive about all of their choices. Said everything looked great, invites were faboo, etc. And their wedding was an entire weekend event. Drinks on Saturday, Wedding on Sunday, and breakfast/brunch on Monday. We were there for ALL of it. Never once complained.
So, my FI and I set a date for our wedding- which they complained about because it meant the might have to drive in bad weather and was inconvient for them for a host of other reasons.
We sent out the invites - not a single word from the bride about them. Admittedly, they were not as fancy as their invites, but I thought they were heartfelt and sweet. NOTHING. The groom points out what he thought was a mistake in some wording. It was not a mistake, just something he didn''t like.
THEN he tells me that they aren''t going to RSVP. He just tells me that they are coming, but that he won''t RSVP cause that''s a pain.
I am so freaking peeved and hurt.
I was so "there" for the bride when they got married...and she hasn''t said a single word to me about the invites? or asked about planning in MONTHS! And she won''t RSVP? And they complain that our wedding is inconvenient? GRRRRRRR.
Okay...so, am I off the deep end here?
I don''t think I''m being a bridezilla...I''m just really HURT at what they have done/haven''t done.
Thoughts? Suggestions?
Okay...so here''s my damage...
My friend got married about a year ago. Big old wedding. I went dress shopping with the bride (my friend is the groom) just to be supportive and nice and listened endlessly as they discussed their upcoming nuptuals. He was having some issues with his family and she was generally a totally obssessed bride that talked of nothing but the wedding for months and months. She was all super crafty bride and really got into the spending money and having a dress specially made, blah blah blah. Not really my scene...but I was there and I tried to be positive about all of their choices. Said everything looked great, invites were faboo, etc. And their wedding was an entire weekend event. Drinks on Saturday, Wedding on Sunday, and breakfast/brunch on Monday. We were there for ALL of it. Never once complained.
So, my FI and I set a date for our wedding- which they complained about because it meant the might have to drive in bad weather and was inconvient for them for a host of other reasons.
We sent out the invites - not a single word from the bride about them. Admittedly, they were not as fancy as their invites, but I thought they were heartfelt and sweet. NOTHING. The groom points out what he thought was a mistake in some wording. It was not a mistake, just something he didn''t like.
THEN he tells me that they aren''t going to RSVP. He just tells me that they are coming, but that he won''t RSVP cause that''s a pain.
I am so freaking peeved and hurt.
I was so "there" for the bride when they got married...and she hasn''t said a single word to me about the invites? or asked about planning in MONTHS! And she won''t RSVP? And they complain that our wedding is inconvenient? GRRRRRRR.
Okay...so, am I off the deep end here?
I don''t think I''m being a bridezilla...I''m just really HURT at what they have done/haven''t done.
Thoughts? Suggestions?