Cehrabehra
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I have no idea what to title this so I''ll be a little
and do it this way
You know those people who can never do anything because you''ve asked too early or you''ve asked too late or they only have a 5 hour window to do something that takes 2 hours?
A couple friends and I are going down town to lunch tomorrow for my b''day and I asked a friend about 3 weeks ago if she wanted to join and she said yes yes, I''d love to BUT I volunteer at my dd''s school and then eat lunch with her EVERY thursday and I really don''t want to mess with that. Okay. We''re talking her leaving 15 minutes early and skipping lunch with her dd but okay... so I call her today and say "well you know you can still join us down there even if you come separately" and she was like oh I''d love to BUT now I''ve scheduled a massage for 4:30. I''m thinkin *I* have to be back by 2, is 2.5 hours just not enough time to prepare for a massage? GMAB! So she tells me she''ll "owe me lunch" but that''s not really the point. And I am very forgiving, I''ll get over this.... but I just find that some people cannot seem to do anything because they''re gripped by some sort of... I dunno... full schedule illusion syndrome? FSIS? LOL I know that she''s not blowing me off, she genuinely thinks 3 hours at the school followed 5 1/2 hours later by a massage is a FULL DAY. Her ex has her dd after school so she doesn''t even have a time constraint with her child LOL I''m going to have to keep a little black book for my friends, "call her at the last minute" "call her a month ahead" "make sure she only has *one* thing planned for that day" LOL I have another friend if you ask her anything other than last minute she''s "oh gosh I don''t know what''s going on then!" and goes into a panic because she doesn''t have her datebook and gets so frazzled she just says no and you can''t get her to budge LOL And another who does the same thing if you call last minute.... I asked her why she wasn''t at a surprise party last weekend and she said she forgot and had just taken off her clothes so she couldn''t come and I''m like why don''t you just put your clothes back on and get over here! She was 2 minutes away! LOL I remember being rigid back in the day but I remember everyone *else* being MUCH more spontaneous and willing to commit. Its so goofy.
I think I''m getting cosmic payback for the years that I was rigid prior to having kids.... LOL
You know those people who can never do anything because you''ve asked too early or you''ve asked too late or they only have a 5 hour window to do something that takes 2 hours?
A couple friends and I are going down town to lunch tomorrow for my b''day and I asked a friend about 3 weeks ago if she wanted to join and she said yes yes, I''d love to BUT I volunteer at my dd''s school and then eat lunch with her EVERY thursday and I really don''t want to mess with that. Okay. We''re talking her leaving 15 minutes early and skipping lunch with her dd but okay... so I call her today and say "well you know you can still join us down there even if you come separately" and she was like oh I''d love to BUT now I''ve scheduled a massage for 4:30. I''m thinkin *I* have to be back by 2, is 2.5 hours just not enough time to prepare for a massage? GMAB! So she tells me she''ll "owe me lunch" but that''s not really the point. And I am very forgiving, I''ll get over this.... but I just find that some people cannot seem to do anything because they''re gripped by some sort of... I dunno... full schedule illusion syndrome? FSIS? LOL I know that she''s not blowing me off, she genuinely thinks 3 hours at the school followed 5 1/2 hours later by a massage is a FULL DAY. Her ex has her dd after school so she doesn''t even have a time constraint with her child LOL I''m going to have to keep a little black book for my friends, "call her at the last minute" "call her a month ahead" "make sure she only has *one* thing planned for that day" LOL I have another friend if you ask her anything other than last minute she''s "oh gosh I don''t know what''s going on then!" and goes into a panic because she doesn''t have her datebook and gets so frazzled she just says no and you can''t get her to budge LOL And another who does the same thing if you call last minute.... I asked her why she wasn''t at a surprise party last weekend and she said she forgot and had just taken off her clothes so she couldn''t come and I''m like why don''t you just put your clothes back on and get over here! She was 2 minutes away! LOL I remember being rigid back in the day but I remember everyone *else* being MUCH more spontaneous and willing to commit. Its so goofy.
I think I''m getting cosmic payback for the years that I was rigid prior to having kids.... LOL