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the most import question ....Gays are a small percentage of the population, so it's not easy to find people to date - not to mention I'm in my 60s.
Being an old-school prude, I have never joined any of those online dating, meat-up, or any GPSie-dudes-near-you-for-boing-boing-now sites.
I still don't even have a smartphone plan - my plan is still just text and voice only.
So it's a miracle we met via a mutual friend at the gym.
Thank you, Arkieb1.
But I don't go along with "meant to be" in this case - or in nearly all cases.
Evidence for such so called "meaning" is inadequate for me to accept it as true.
Such extraordinary claims carry a burden of proof that they have not met.
Such things just ARE.
I strive to take responsibility for what I want, instead of passing it on to some external make-believe entity or make-believe destiny, fate, or meaning.
Similarly, I don't say, "Bless You" or "Gesundheit" when someone sneezes because there is no evidence that the soul is vulnerable to demons entering when we sneeze, fart, burp, vomit, poop, pee, etc.
All I know is, I do not want to be alone.
FWIW, I'm way more rational than I was 1.5 years ago.
Excellent news indeed. Wishing you much happiness in the future.I've met someone.
He's wonderful, and it's going well.
I'm very happy about this!!!!!
A year and a half is a long time.
I'm attracted big hairy men.
In the gay community they are called bears.
But after I snag one, I want him to eat healthy.
It's wrong.
I'm stupid and bad.
I'll never be perfect.
It's a mystery why we want what is not good for us.
Does any overweight PS member eat food, or food quantities they know they should not eat?
Yes, my new SO is a bear.
Slim hairless me are not attractive to me.
He and I do work towards a healthier lifestyle.
Tonight it's stirfry.
I fully realize that it's a unreasonable paradox.
Sorry.
Have you no inconsistencies and conflicts in your life?
Clearly, I do.
Oh Glob, I hope he doesn't see this thread.