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Hey fellow PSers. I thought I would start a thread on Rheumatoid arthritis. A place where any of you that suffer from it, can share their experiences, ask questions and generally vent about living life with a disease that you know has no cure.

I was diagnosed about 4 years ago. In a few short months I went from having almost no symptoms to getting really sick. I was exhausted all the time, to the point that I would start a task like washing, cleaning etc, and fall into a crying heap on the floor as I was so tired. My joints started hurting, and as a scientist, I knew something was wrong. My doc sent me off for tests and when I called up for them, the silly receptionist told me that I would have to see a doctor, she couldn''t disclose my results as they were abnormal as my Rheumatoid factor was very high. I am no idiot, that can only mean one of a few things and coupled with my symptoms I just knew what the diagnosis would be. I still remember sitting in the Rheumatologists office when he confirmed the diagnosis, I felt numb, it hadn''t really sunk in. It didn''t really hit me until I dropped into my parents place and Mum opened the door, took one look at my face and burst into tears. I think she blamed herself. It wasn''t her fault of course. That''s just life. That was the hardest thing about having it, telling my parents.

I was put onto 20mg methotrexate a week and my symptoms are fantastic now. I occasionally get a flare up, but I have learnt that it''s a disease that you have to manage, not just medicate. I have learnt the hard way, when to rest when I am tired, to get plenty of sleep and look after myself. My FI has been an amazing source of strength, he always looks after me. He will get up in the middle of the night to get me meds, find a hot water bottle and just generally pick up the slack when I am down. Most of the time I forget I have it, until my joints get niggly or I get really really tired for no good reason, and then I remember to take it easy or I am in for a big flare.

For those of you that have RA or any other autoimmune disorder, don''t ignore the signs. Find out what''s wrong straight away and don''t be afraid to ask for help when you are unwell.

Looking back, I realise that the disease was active a few years before I found out. The constant tiredness, the need for Nanna naps after only a few hours of work or school, the constant illness, getting run down easy etc etc, these are all signs. I was convinced I was a hypocondriac, it was actually a relief to have someone say, You have ....... At least I didn''t feel like a loser, or a constant winger, there was a reason.

Phew, I didn''t mean for this post to get so long or serious. Please share if you want to. We are all friends here!
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Oh, I meant to ask, if any of you do have it, what did you do/plan to do about falling pregnant. Methotrexate is an absolute no-no during and before pregnancy (it''s an anti-cancer drug and used in medical abortions).

We are thinking of having kids in a few years and I am really scared of going off my meds for the 3 months before trying and then up to the birth. I know there are alternative medications during pregnancy, but I was wondering if any of you had used them, or know of others that had?
 
I myself do not have RA (knock on wood....), but my maternal grandmother suffered dearly from it while she was alive. She was diagnosed in her mid 30s, I believe, and her joints and neck were her greatest sources of pain. I do know that the drugs and treatments improved greatly during her lifetime, so although they weren't able to prevent the damage that left her with gnarled hands and feet (even after many knuckle/joint replacements), they were able to manage her symptoms and pain in her last 10 years to a MUCH higher degree. I guess what I really want to say is that I don't think RA is quite as bad a diagnosis as it was 50 years ago (thank god).

I think it's important for young adults to be educated about the early warnings/symptoms of the disease, especially if they have a diagnosed relative (and are thus at higher risk). I grew up hearing my grandmother always say how much she prayed she didn't give it to me and her other grandkids. Now I'm a few years shy of 30, and I'm very watchful, almost paranoid, of the disease showing itself. So far none of my cousins or myself have been diagnosed with RA, but one cousin has lupus (so, still AI, and really no better than RA). Honey, I had never thought about the issues with pregnancy, but I'm definitely going to look that one up.

*Big hugs* to Honey and anyone else here with RA.
 
Hi Ladyciel! That''s one of the most important things, getting an early diagnosis. Once the joint destruction has occured, it''s irreversible. A few weeks or months without medication can really make a difference.

I am lucky to have caught mine so early. A normal GP can''t see radiographic changes (on Z-ray) but my specialist can, they are very mild.

Fingers crossed that you haven''t had any symptoms, and you have every chance that you won''t. But as you say, awareness is so important and knowing that something can be done to relieve symptoms.

Autoimmune disease is quite prominent on both sides of my family. My Mum''s grandmother had RA. Dad has psorisis. His Mum has RA. His uncle had diabetes. All AI (autoimmune) diseases. I guess I just lucked out.

I won''t let RA stop me from having children, even though I know there is some chance that they may have some form of AID. This may seem incredibly selfish to some, however I know that it''s not a life sentence, you can lead a relatively healthy normal life with minor intervention. Also there is a strong family effect, it''s not exactly known what causes RA, it''s such a multifactoral disease. I won''t give up my dream of having children for a small chance. And medical research is progressing everyday, who knows when a cure might be available.
 
I don''t have it, but my mom does. It''s pretty severe. She has cycled through every drug out there, I think (methotrexate, Celebrex, Humira, Enbrel, to name a few). She is currently on Orencia. She was disgnosed about 20 years ago and has since had several surgeries on her hands, wrists, back. I feel so bad for her because she is such a strong person that hates to ask for help. The things she accomplishes (still) are amazing. I swear she has more energy than anyone I know. She and I just refinished a half bath last week, and she did most of the work herself (I was at work). I have noticed that a lot of how she feels has to do with her emotions. When she gets really upset or stressed, she will have a flare up, but as long as she is happy (read: with her kids) she does well.

Honey, I wish you well and am glad to hear that your RA was caught early. Early diagnosis and a great rheumatologist seem to make all the difference in the world.
 
Hi honey22,

I am sorry you were diagnosed with this awful disease.

My daughter has RA.

She was diagnosed at age 9. She will be 37, come this September. She has had all of the medications for it. She had the gold shots way back then, Methotrexate, you name it, she took it.

Right now she is having a flare-up in her foot and is just on Celebrex. She goes in and out of remission. Her longest remission has been 3 years.

When she was 12 it really attacked her elbow and she had to have part of the joint removed. The fingers of both of her hands, have both been damaged as well.

My daughter has been married for 15 years and has two sons. She wasn''t on any medication at the time.


I know Kaleigh''s daughter has RA also, so hopefully, she will join in this thread too.
 
My DH has psoriatic arthritis. He is currently on remicade (sp?) which is an infusion given through an IV every 4 weeks or so and celebrex daily. The remicade is VERY aggressive but is not cutting it. He has new damage and I know is discouraged by the whole situation. He has a new doctor who is going to try new treatments and may even send him through a university (trial) study if the conventional measures aren''t working.
 
Tacori,


That is awful. I am so sorry, I hope your hubby finds some relief soon.
 
I don''t have it, but I''m sorry for those of you that do-I can''t imagine! What causes it?

My gramma''s sister had it.
 
I have a cousin of RA, palindromic rheumatism. I was diagnosed in my mid teens, and have been able to get away with just taking celebrex for it. It can be excrutiatingly painful at times, but I am thankful it has not worsened too much over the years.

I am glad that your meds have helped you honey22!!
 
I have RA, diagnosed in my early 20''s. The only problem I had at all until about a year ago, I''m now 42, was exhaustion. Now I''m starting to have pain and swelling in my fingers, hands, and wrists so I have a doctor''s appt next week to see what my course of treatment will be. I did not have any problems at all during my pregnancies.

Good luck.
 
I have RA. First symptoms appeared as pain and swelling in my left ankle. My bloodwork never showed the Rheumatoid factor--doctors said it's rare but it happens and made it very difficult to diagnose. Of course, that was 21 years ago and I'm sure there are other methods of making a final diagnosis now. But, at that time, I was repeatedly tested for lupus, gout, and lyme disease. It was the 10th dtr (yes, I was counting) that finally said the symptoms were just too close to RA to not be RA...so we would treat it as such. Before that, doctors had given up and were, basically, making me think it was all in my head....at that time I was grateful to have a red, swollen joint so I had proof something was wrong. I cannot even imagine how much ibuprofen I took, (prescription strength, 800 mg, three times a day) but it was enough to cause stomach trouble which I have to treat to this day.

I did everything available at the time except gold shots...but did take gold pills. Most recent meds include Celebrex, Remicade, Methotrexate...usually took a drug until something better came out or I had an adverse reaction to it. Currently, I am on Enbrel and it has been a gift from Heaven. I don't even feel like I have RA anymore with regard to pain and flares.

During that 21 years, though, the damage to my left ankle resulted in a surgical fusion, left wrist surgically fused, as well, and I have a right wrist replacement (allowing some joint movement). The wrist surgeries were 5 months apart and I had to learn to use my fingers with extensive therapy. I was told I would no longer be able to type and may not be able to continue working. Wrong! Fingers don't work exactly like they did but I can type...and I continue to work. I am very grateful for what I can do now compared to how limited I was prior to surgeries and meds that worked for me.
 
My Daughter has RA, she was diagnosed at 18 months. She had pauciarticular (SP) JRA, meaning 3 joints or less.. It was her right knee, thumb/wrist and big toe. She took Tolectin back then. I don''t know what she is on now, she goes to the doc on her own, she''s 21. I will ask her tonight what medicine she is taking. I know they change it now and then. She has flare up''s but is doing really well.

It''s a mean disease, I feel for anyone that is afflicted with it....
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I was diagnosed with RA three years ago at the age of 29. I was in a great deal of pain pretty much all the time and couldn''t get out of bed or walk down a flight of stairs. My symptoms were around for months before I made it to see a doctor (associates at work thought I was making it up
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.) I also had a newborn with a physical disabilty. It was a very dark time in my life.... I was put on methotrexate, hydroxycloriquine, and a steroid. I quit my job and found no relief from my medications plus gained around 50 pounds. I believe this was due the meds. Around six months ago, I stopped taking the steroids and switched to a Humira injection twice a month. I feel amazing! My fatigue is gone almost completely! There is still stiffness and inflammation but I couldn''t imagine going back. I believe I lost 20 pounds the first month I was on humira. My DR. accounts this to moving more
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We are considering having another baby and decided to wait two years. I want to be comfortable with my condition and get my weight in control before even considering it. I had such a hard time with my last son because of all my symptoms and I wouldn''t wish that one anyone. I have moderate to severe symptoms all over my body but mainly in my hips, shoulders, hand, and feet. I swear that RA has affected my breathing/lungs also. It has been pretty hard for my because I am young and had a very active and social life before the onset of my symptoms. I kinds lost track of my life for a couple years but I am getting it back
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Thankyou all so much for sharing your stories. It''s heartwarming to hear that others have also had great results from different medications.

I have not had a flare for months, but I think I mozzed myself starting this thread - here I am up at 3.30 in the morning. Can''t sleep for my joints throbbing and feeling achy and fluey. So thankful it''s Sunday tomorow, when I finally get to sleep I am going to need it.
 
Date: 7/5/2009 9:51:33 PM
Author: natalina
I don''t have it, but my mom does. It''s pretty severe. She has cycled through every drug out there, I think (methotrexate, Celebrex, Humira, Enbrel, to name a few). She is currently on Orencia. She was disgnosed about 20 years ago and has since had several surgeries on her hands, wrists, back. I feel so bad for her because she is such a strong person that hates to ask for help. The things she accomplishes (still) are amazing. I swear she has more energy than anyone I know. She and I just refinished a half bath last week, and she did most of the work herself (I was at work). I have noticed that a lot of how she feels has to do with her emotions. When she gets really upset or stressed, she will have a flare up, but as long as she is happy (read: with her kids) she does well.


Honey, I wish you well and am glad to hear that your RA was caught early. Early diagnosis and a great rheumatologist seem to make all the difference in the world.

Wow, I can''t imagine having it for 20 years, although I know that''s the reality. It''s so great that she stays strong and positive. I totally understand about staying positive and stressfree, it really does make a difference!

Your Mom sounds like an amazing strong woman!
 
Date: 7/5/2009 10:09:21 PM
Author: Linda W
Hi honey22,


I am sorry you were diagnosed with this awful disease.


My daughter has RA.


She was diagnosed at age 9. She will be 37, come this September. She has had all of the medications for it. She had the gold shots way back then, Methotrexate, you name it, she took it.


Right now she is having a flare-up in her foot and is just on Celebrex. She goes in and out of remission. Her longest remission has been 3 years.


When she was 12 it really attacked her elbow and she had to have part of the joint removed. The fingers of both of her hands, have both been damaged as well.


My daughter has been married for 15 years and has two sons. She wasn''t on any medication at the time.



I know Kaleigh''s daughter has RA also, so hopefully, she will join in this thread too.

The poor little thing, such a big thing to deal with at such a young age. I feel angry for her that she lost part of her joint and has permanent damage, it''s just not fair.

It''s so good that she was able to have two pregnancies without meds, it gives me hope for future healthy pregnancies of my own.
 
Date: 7/5/2009 10:28:06 PM
Author: Tacori E-ring
My DH has psoriatic arthritis. He is currently on remicade (sp?) which is an infusion given through an IV every 4 weeks or so and celebrex daily. The remicade is VERY aggressive but is not cutting it. He has new damage and I know is discouraged by the whole situation. He has a new doctor who is going to try new treatments and may even send him through a university (trial) study if the conventional measures aren''t working.

Tacori, try not to be discouraged, and please don''t give up hope. It must be so very hard for you to watch your hubby in pain and not be able to fix it. I am sure your support is a great help to him.

I am keeping my fingers crossed that he can get on a new trial and have some success soon.
 
Date: 7/5/2009 10:35:20 PM
Author: packrat
I don''t have it, but I''m sorry for those of you that do-I can''t imagine! What causes it?


My gramma''s sister had it.

The exact cause is unknown but it''s an autoimmune disease, where the body thinks the joints are foreign and attacks them in an effort to destroy the ''foreign body''. Damn traitor immune systems!!
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The joints become inflammed and fill with excess synoival fluid. You get swelling, heat, pain, stiffness etc. This can lead to permanent joint destruction if not treated early. As the immune system is involved, you also feel chronic fatigue and feeling sick and run down, like you have a bad virus. At this stage there is no cure - just medications to slow the progression of the disease and reduce inflammation. A lot of medications reduce or supress the immune response, which in turn can make your immune system less able to fight other infections in your body, and you are more susceptible to infections and illness. I am on antibiotics for chest and ear infections almost every second month. It sucks! I would average 1 day off per month from RA and associated sickness.

I remember learning about autoimmune diseases in uni and feeling a sense of terror that your own body could attack itself so aggressively. If only I knew then.......
 
Date: 7/6/2009 10:37:25 PM
Author: hlmr
I have a cousin of RA, palindromic rheumatism. I was diagnosed in my mid teens, and have been able to get away with just taking celebrex for it. It can be excrutiatingly painful at times, but I am thankful it has not worsened too much over the years.


I am glad that your meds have helped you honey22!!

That''s great news! Hopefully it stays under control!
 
Date: 7/7/2009 11:12:44 PM
Author: MMMD
I have RA, diagnosed in my early 20''s. The only problem I had at all until about a year ago, I''m now 42, was exhaustion. Now I''m starting to have pain and swelling in my fingers, hands, and wrists so I have a doctor''s appt next week to see what my course of treatment will be. I did not have any problems at all during my pregnancies.


Good luck.

I am very sorry to hear this, it does sound like your disease is becoming active. Good luck with your docs appointment, now is really the time to hit this aggressively and prevent or stop any joint destruction.

Good luck MMMD!
 
Date: 7/8/2009 1:09:14 PM
Author: dianne
I have RA. First symptoms appeared as pain and swelling in my left ankle. My bloodwork never showed the Rheumatoid factor--doctors said it''s rare but it happens and made it very difficult to diagnose. Of course, that was 21 years ago and I''m sure there are other methods of making a final diagnosis now. But, at that time, I was repeatedly tested for lupus, gout, and lyme disease. It was the 10th dtr (yes, I was counting) that finally said the symptoms were just too close to RA to not be RA...so we would treat it as such. Before that, doctors had given up and were, basically, making me think it was all in my head....at that time I was grateful to have a red, swollen joint so I had proof something was wrong. I cannot even imagine how much ibuprofen I took, (prescription strength, 800 mg, three times a day) but it was enough to cause stomach trouble which I have to treat to this day.


I did everything available at the time except gold shots...but did take gold pills. Most recent meds include Celebrex, Remicade, Methotrexate...usually took a drug until something better came out or I had an adverse reaction to it. Currently, I am on Enbrel and it has been a gift from Heaven. I don''t even feel like I have RA anymore with regard to pain and flares.


During that 21 years, though, the damage to my left ankle resulted in a surgical fusion, left wrist surgically fused, as well, and I have a right wrist replacement (allowing some joint movement). The wrist surgeries were 5 months apart and I had to learn to use my fingers with extensive therapy. I was told I would no longer be able to type and may not be able to continue working. Wrong! Fingers don''t work exactly like they did but I can type...and I continue to work. I am very grateful for what I can do now compared to how limited I was prior to surgeries and meds that worked for me.

Diane, I am sorry to hear that you have gone through so much, but congratulations on staying positive and having success! I really believe in the power of the mind and it''s healing abilities. Don''t give up!!
 
Date: 7/8/2009 4:35:11 PM
Author: Kaleigh
My Daughter has RA, she was diagnosed at 18 months. She had pauciarticular (SP) JRA, meaning 3 joints or less.. It was her right knee, thumb/wrist and big toe. She took Tolectin back then. I don''t know what she is on now, she goes to the doc on her own, she''s 21. I will ask her tonight what medicine she is taking. I know they change it now and then. She has flare up''s but is doing really well.


It''s a mean disease, I feel for anyone that is afflicted with it....
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Kaleigh, what a terrible thing for such a little one. Life is just so unfair sometimes. Great to hear that she is doing well though.
 
Date: 7/8/2009 5:19:45 PM
Author: akmiss
I was diagnosed with RA three years ago at the age of 29. I was in a great deal of pain pretty much all the time and couldn''t get out of bed or walk down a flight of stairs. My symptoms were around for months before I made it to see a doctor (associates at work thought I was making it up
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.) I also had a newborn with a physical disabilty. It was a very dark time in my life.... I was put on methotrexate, hydroxycloriquine, and a steroid. I quit my job and found no relief from my medications plus gained around 50 pounds. I believe this was due the meds. Around six months ago, I stopped taking the steroids and switched to a Humira injection twice a month. I feel amazing! My fatigue is gone almost completely! There is still stiffness and inflammation but I couldn''t imagine going back. I believe I lost 20 pounds the first month I was on humira. My DR. accounts this to moving more
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We are considering having another baby and decided to wait two years. I want to be comfortable with my condition and get my weight in control before even considering it. I had such a hard time with my last son because of all my symptoms and I wouldn''t wish that one anyone. I have moderate to severe symptoms all over my body but mainly in my hips, shoulders, hand, and feet. I swear that RA has affected my breathing/lungs also. It has been pretty hard for my because I am young and had a very active and social life before the onset of my symptoms. I kinds lost track of my life for a couple years but I am getting it back
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Wow, how did you cope with being sick and a newborn with special needs, I just couldn''t imagine. That''s fabulous news that the humira has done wonders! Really glad to hear that you got your life back on track, it could be so very easy to give up when you have such a crappy diagnosis. I hear you about the change in social life. Some of my friends didn''t understand my need to be tucked up in bed by 9pm on a weekend, and the sudden end of dinner parties when I hit a wall and just crashed.

My FI and I have agreed that we won''t start trying to conceive until I am at my healthy weight range and feeling really well and fit. The stress of a pregnancy would be hard enough on a fragile immune system, I don''t want to be overweight and unhealthy and the start. He is an amazing support though, with him, I can get through anything.
 
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